Are any of you In a longterm relationship and love your partner so much but just feel like somethings missing.Are some people just not compatible and if so then why?If you love somebody then why would this happen.
2007-01-06 10:33:45 · 13 answers · asked by julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This has been an issue from the beginning of the relationship
2007-01-06 10:44:30 · update #1
I am getting married in September. My finance and I have been together for 5 years, I love him more than words could ever explain- he is everything to me and we are very very close, but no there's not a ton of passion. You just have to decide what you really want. It's not going to be like you see on tv.
2007-01-06 11:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine has been dating a guy for almost a year, and she has said, the entire time, that there really isn't any passion, and that she thinks it's okay, because when we're all older, friendship is what's really important in a relationship/marriage. Personally, I think she's trying to convince everyone, including herself, that it's okay to have a relationship without passion. My opinion is that, especially so early in her relationship, if it's lacking passion, it really is more of a friendship, not a romantic relationship, and you need to decide what you really want.
2007-01-06 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by debbiep09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I think a lot of people are in that situation.
Different people work it out in different ways. Some look to their friends, hobbies , jobs to find that other thing they feel they are missing. Other's have affairs and other's search for the relationship that encompasses it all. I don't know if anyone finds it.
2007-01-06 18:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love someone and not have any passion or compatabily with that person if you aren't compatable then maybe you should be with the person
2007-01-06 19:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. When the passion goes, it's gone. You may still feel the kind of love one has for a friend.
2007-01-06 18:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by pooty36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships can some effort. They get stagnent. Spice it up a little. Go on a tropical vacation. Or just pretend your having one.
2007-01-06 18:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i love each other very much.we dont have sex on a regular basis.not bc we dont want to but bc we are both tired from workin all the time.i feel we are compatible we just have alot goin on.
2007-01-06 18:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone without being IN love with him/her. People change.
2007-01-06 18:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup you can. It sucks and you have to decide if that is what you want to live with you do you need the passion too.
2007-01-06 18:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one possibility mid life crisis
2007-01-06 18:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by MAC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋