Im ten years old and my mom and dad got divorced when I was 5 and every night I have a great dream about my dad and me having so much fun! But then I wake up crying! I MISS MY DAD and Im to afraid to tell my mom because I know she won't help because she has a boyfriend that lives with us and my dad is also re-marred! So,... how do I get over it!? PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-01-06 10:30:55 · 20 answers · asked by leeza f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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thank you all for your advice I will try every single one! : )
2007-01-06 11:11:23 · update #1
Discuss your dreams with your mom. Explain that you miss your father and would like to see him sometimes. A girl needs love from both her parents. It isn't that one isn't enough, it's that moms and dads are different. Don't agrue or fight over this. Just sit down and talk about it. Good Luck,
2007-01-06 10:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to feel upet,you have every right.Just know that you did nothing wrong.They just went apart.I dont know what happend or the reasons why but always know it was not cause of you.Its ok to tell your mom taht you miss your dad,maybe you should try spending more time with him.No matter what they both went on with there own life and noone can get them back togther,but unless they still had feelings there might be a chance,but they both found love with another person and im sure they are both happy.Try being happy for them both and try to look at it as there are more to love and more to love you back.You cant change what happend so just believe it was for a reason and try to injoy your time with them both.They are alive and there your perents,take the time to be a kid and but let your perents know that it bothers you.If your moms boyfriend really cares about you and you mom he will let you have them feelings and be your friend and understand how you feel.Your mom needs to know how you feel ,even if she doesnt help,its not that she doesnt want to help its cause she cant change things,they have bboth moved on.Good luck
2007-01-06 18:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad how you feel, sweetie, your mom and dad probably arent going to get back together so whether you like it or not, you are going to have to try and accept this,divorce is never easy, and its always hardest on you kids,if you want to live with your dad,then you need to tell him, i dont know if its allowed in the state that you live in, but if your mom lets you then you will have what you want,if not then things will remain the way that they are,what ever happens its not your fault,sometimes when things get hard such as having no money, or mom and dads jobs are too hard, or for whatever reason your parents grew apart,and they grew so far apart that they didnt even like each other anymore,so there was no way for them to stay together no matter how much you wanted them too,my daughter lives with me, she had a hard time away from her mom at first, but it gets easier good luck sweetie it will get better
2007-01-06 18:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I divorced when my son was in first grade.
You do not stop being your daddys baby when your mom and dad divorced. I am sure your mom loves you, or you wouldnt be there. trust her. tell her how you feel. let her know that you love her just as much as you love your dad but that you need both of them. if at all pos. call your dad and tell him how you feel.
thay dont have to see each other. of corse if he has beat you or is a danger to you, you may need to talk to someone about your ops. I never kept my son from his dad and I feel every child needs both parents
2007-01-06 18:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by callybilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go ahead and talk with your MOM and tell her how you feel. SHe will understand what your going thru. It doesn't matter if your DAd is married or she has a bf just talk with her. And also call your Dad every chnace you get and tell him how you feel too. Your MOM and DAD can't read your mind so say something and go from there.
2007-01-06 18:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feels when parents don't understand ur feelings. U need a friend a very close one. Share everythng with him or her. Or maybe try calling ur dad if u really miss him. Ask him to spend some time with you.
2007-01-07 01:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Chocogal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need a really really good close friend 2help U and spend timewith u make U happy just try 2get over it and talk 2ur dad on the fone u need 2relaxe take it easy .
2007-01-06 18:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by mohame 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be remarried, but I am sure you are still his little girl. Send him a nice card, (tell your Mom About it) and say you miss him and would like to get together to talk some time. I am sure he would be happy to hear from you.
2007-01-06 19:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anne2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you never truly get over it. but separation is part of life. time will fix your problem, and know this your mother and your father both love you wether their together or not. if you miss your father tell your mother you would like to see your father. she will understand. don't be afraid to ask. the only bad question is the question left unsaid.
2007-01-06 18:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by mcdanight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard for kids of divorced parents.i have 3 kids,and they have been though alot.their dad told them for 2 trs after we split that i should come back,be the happy little family.that never happened.i have since married he hasnt.just try to spend as much time with your dad.
2007-01-06 18:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋