but im not that old. what should i do if my parents don't support me. and i dont know who the father is
2007-01-06 10:17:52 · 29 answers · asked by riles4 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your parents should not financially support you.
You got pregnant and now must act like an adult for the sake of your child.
You better start listing names of what guys you had intercourse with, and demand blood tests. You will need to collect child support from him.
Maybe give Maury Povich a call, sometimes he does those tests for free.
2007-01-06 10:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by kabmiller@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Old Are You?? And, How Could U Not Know Who The Father Is???
I'm Sure Ur Parents Will Understand!! And, They'll Most Likey Be Happy And Excited That There Will Be A New Baby In The Family!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-06 10:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by *Hilary_Duff_Honey* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I thought that I would look through your other questions to get a age and I got age 11? Is this correct, you are 11 years old and having a baby? And most of all you dont know who the father is???? I wasnt even thinking about sex at 11. Do you understand that you have a living breathing human being inside of you? This is a very big deal and I dont think you have come to grasps with it. Is there something at home that is making you search for more outside of your home? You should be having fun with friends and not worrying about being pregnant. I am in no way for abortion but I really think you should think about adoption unless you have willing parents to support you and I can go ahead and tell you that its going to be hard for you being so young. How far along are you? How many guys can you narrow it down to? Please if you want to take e-mail me @ hillcrestkat@yahoo.com.
2007-01-06 10:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Katrina R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who finds herself unexpectedly pregnant has 3 options. Abortion, adoption or keeping the baby. I am assuming you have at least a few possibilities for the father, so understand that for adoption you'll need to have the baby and any potential fathers DNA tested to figure out which it is so he can consent.
You don't give us much to go on here, but I say talk to your parents, talk to any potential fathers and see how it all goes. They may be more supportive than you think, and if they're not, you'll need to know that to make your decision.
2007-01-06 10:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when I was pregnant.I have a girl named Madison De`shee Cayon.She was born June 12,2002.I had to barely beg my parents for help.They finally came over it.Now I am 19.Madison is 4 1/2.We live in a 3 bedroom house and I drive a Jaguar.Good luck.
2007-01-06 10:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by crazygurl87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either call maury and find out who ur babys daddy is or go on with ur life without ur baby having a father. ur parents should support if they loved u....but then again it was ur fault that u got pregnant and u should take responsibility for that, cuz u cant always go running to mommy and daddy for something when u need it. u r now managing ur life and ur childs life. it may be a hassel but one day u will be greatful u had this baby
good luck
2007-01-06 12:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by name. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im young, and i'm pregnant. Its not the end of the world. Although my situation is different from yours in that i knew my parents would help me out, your parents love you and to not support you or throw you out is their problem. I don't think its fair to judge you, everybody makes mistakes. I know most people aren't doing what i'm doing by going with adoption for my baby, i feel like its a beautiful thing. Im giving my baby a life that i couldn't possibly dream of giving him. I know you hear adoption and tense up, but people who are way against adoption just don't know enough about it. There are plenty of agencies that have families who want open adoptions with the birth mothers. Thats what im doing and i know the adopted parents will not cut me out of his life. He's always going to know of me and his daddy and what we did for him. Im even going to see him again because the parents told me that they were going to make sure that we met one day. I think its a perfect situation and babies need alot of work and love and its going to have 2 families that love him like he'll never know. But just in case your parents don't understand, do you have a friend or a close relative you could live with if they kick you out or something? Im sure they'll help you out, you're their baby girl and they love you. Everything is going to be ok, just be safe and don't worry about that guy, he'll get whats coming to him when he leasts expect it, just take good care of you and the little one, k? God bless
2007-01-06 10:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to this websight. Planned Parenthood is a wonderful group. They help young, unmarried teens with things like this. If your parents do not support you, there are shelters that help to support young girls. You can look those up in your local phonebook.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2007-01-06 10:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by I *Heart* Plato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, maybe you shoulda thought about the consequences of sex BEFORE getting pregnant, and taken the appropriate precautions.
Based on your question, you're still a minor, or at the very least, still at home with your parents.
There are many options available. Adoption, abortion, keeping the child. All of these have varying considerations. Find a responsible adult you trust and discuss your options w/ them.
2007-01-06 10:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by mike w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your parents, and if you feel that you cant provide a home for the baby, then put it up for adoption, that is really the best thing for the baby, and people like my Aunt and Uncle are wonderful and cant have children of their own. Above all else, for the baby, be honest, and put it before yourself. Good Luck honey
2007-01-06 10:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Beckwith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋