I want to have sex with my wife but I'm afraid to ask. How do I do It?

Question

I want to have sex with my wife.

Answer 1

Women love foreplay. Not just in the bed. It can start from the time you wake up. Kiss her longer than 2 seconds, rub her back lightly, look her in the eyes while talking to her, touch the small of her back when you get near her. Compliment her on a small thing. Please don't over do this, because it will send red flags flying high. Ask her to go out to dinner or ask her if you can help her make dinner, I find that this is the best foreplay for me and alot of women that I've talked to also. Wait a minute. If this is your wife, why are you afraid to ask her for sex? That's a problem within itself. Maybe you need to check out why you have to ask for sex. Maybe you're not a romantic type guy and she hate or is tired of emotionless sex. You really need to talk to her and find out why you have to ask her sex.

Answer 2

Good Lord---She's your wife for heavens sake. If you can't ask her for sex what the h..l are you doin with her? Look take the romantic approach and ask if she'd like a bubble bath or a massage. Then set everything up, candles, soft music, low lights. Where have you been? Is this your first time? Women love to be treated like queens so do anything she wants and trust me she'll get the message. Get goin mister!

Answer 3

You two are married! You don't need to ask her! You can just go up to her and start making out with her and it could lead to sex. If she says no then stop.

Answer 4

If there have been issues in your marriage that has caused her to lose interest in sex, seek marriage counceling, because if that's the case, there are issues there that NEED to be brought out in the open and keeping them bottled up NEVER helps.

Honestly the best approach I can think of is sit down and calmly talk with her about it and let her know how you feel, don't yell, just calmly talk about it. Let her know how you feel.

Answer 5

oh my god!!! she is your wife man and you can have sex with her even without asking her, because she needs u as much as u need her, how would it be if you didn't do it with your wife?? the need for sex wont disappear and you will finally find your self looking for a satisfaction in others, believe me you have to be the man of the situation

Answer 6

walk in and give her a big hug, followed closely by a nice kiss, gently massage her back as you hold her and slowly ease your hand downward, still kissing her. Once your hand is securely on a cheek, give it a firm squeeze, still kissing her but deeply and wet. Turn her around and bend her over whatever is handy and go ahead and finish what you have started. She will appreciate it.

Answer 7

You don't ask.

After you work a 50 hour week:
You do the housework.
You buy the groceries.
You cook the meals.
You take care of the kids (if any).
You clean up after the pets (if any).
You deal with your parents.

Then you lay in bed with a nice, stiff one and she will sex you until your ears bleed.

Answer 8

Women are like crockpots...takes a while for us to warm up! Offer a massage! Offer to run her a bath. Flirt with her..compliment her. Offer to do a chore you know she hates doing. My ex would get jumped on by me everytime he did the laundry...when he actually folded and put it all away. He knew he was going to get lucky for sure whenever he did that. Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

If this is your problem you guys are in big trouble.

In a marriage you should be able to say what you want & if you can't marriage counseling is the answer.

Answer 10

Don't bother she probably prefers to have sex with men who actually have balls.