and she is calling me a selfish ***** just because i didnt invite her she got to come last year
2007-01-06 10:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Lexie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont worry about her. you arent the one who is being selfish. she is. she feels that everything is about you and her only. when really she needs to see that you have a life and you have other friends. tell her that she isnt being fair. that she is acting childish. tell her that if she wants to be selfish and unfair then she cant come anymore. that you will just choose other people to go instead of her. then stand back and see what she says and does and if she acts mean and says things like she doesnt care if she doesnt go or not then walk away and let it stay where it is. give her her space for a little while and then come back and speak to her again. then make her promise that she will be fair if she doesnt go. that it wont change you guys' friendship. just make her think about what she is doing and how she is acting. good luck.
2007-01-06 10:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i totally understand where your coming from I have this group of friends (theres 4 of us) and everytime i call one of them i better call the other. They flip out on me if I call one and not the other 2. But I dont feel they are realistic, yeah were great friends and all but they need to get over themselves. It sounds like you need to ignore your friend until she realizes how dumb she is acting. She needs to question herself is one football game is worth ruinning a friendship
2007-01-06 10:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by buhash06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite the other friend over immediately and stop the fussin
pop some popcorn and u all get along.
life is like a coin, spend it with positive thinkin
2007-01-06 10:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what, invite her also. You said she's your friend. The more the merrier. Make it a party invite others also. Everyone bring a snack
2007-01-06 10:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by cheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" is a selfish little drama queen. Pretend it never happened and go on with your life.
2007-01-06 10:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by cather2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get over it.
She is not a friend if she has to cuss you because she didn't get her way.
2007-01-06 10:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have invited them both.
Sounds like you really didn't want her around.
Maybe you really don't like her much.
2007-01-06 10:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it, why didn't you just invite her also?
2007-01-06 10:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friend dislike u because of this, u might as well stop hanging out with her.
2007-01-06 10:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋