If a friend and I are drunk and we deside to experiment, how can I avoid the friendship being ruined? Would dening the whole thing and telling him it was just a nightmare work?
2007-01-06 09:35:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
By starting OFF with a few rules.
1) this is just a one nite thing, it won't go any further
2) if your uncomfortable afterwards, we won't ever talk about it.
3) etc.
Once boundaries are in place, you both should feel safe.
2007-01-06 09:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Based on your other questions and this one, I would say that you are harming your friendship already. Alcohol will only be one more layer to that lie. I think if you are going to experiment you should be doing it sober and in honesty. You have more or less posted that your friend is curious but you have not been honest with him about your leanings. You are setting yourself up for a disaster, why not talk to your friend and tell him you are gay and that yes you want to have sex with him. If you use alcohol as the crutch then you have made the act a dirty occurance and something to feel guilty about. Do you want your first and his time together to be a beautiful act together or something you can pretend didn't happen in the morning.
2007-01-06 09:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by rndmacts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i recognize what you're goin through dude. hear, if she would not have a boyfriend then possibly you should hint round to her that you truly like her and see what takes position. do not end the friendship though if she would not wanna be more desirable than friends, hell you've were given a superb buddy so why end that? that's complicated for adult men to have women as friends (truly warm *** one's) because of this. I say make a bypass though guy hell why not.
2016-10-16 23:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by sherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that would not work. Friendships need to be based around honesty.
Experimenting is just that--experimenting. Something you guys did together, just to see what would happen, how it would feel, etc. You don't have to talk about it, but lying about it is surely the wrong way to go.
2007-01-06 09:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think denying it is the best for a friendship. Just tell him that you're glad you tried it, but it just doesn't work for you. He'll be like "me too" and then you go back to being buds.
2007-01-06 09:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...the truth is the only thing that will help on both sides..you can't just ignore what happened...what you can do is sit down and talk about it..and talk about remaining friends.
2007-01-06 09:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take a long look at your question and you will see that you have answered it yourself.
You dont experiment with friends! or anyone else for that matter.
2007-01-06 09:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by bazbikes49 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never mix business (friends} with pleasure. that's my philosophy...u can't go back....L
2007-01-06 09:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by ben and lisa h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is he having feelings for you?
2007-01-06 09:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would just be a friend thing!! lol
2007-01-06 09:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋