Is there any mediums out there who have made contact with the spirit of a suicide???

Question

My friends husband recently committed suicide. i am sensitive to spirits and yet I felt nothing at the house or at the funeral. I have a view that the spirit of someone hangs about for a while and farewells their loved ones but in this case nothing. It was not imagined that this would happen and appears to be veru unexpected and sudden. THere was no real warnings just one mention if you leave I will kill my self and they did. I am realy struggling with the fact that there is no "feeling" of them about. What is the view of other mediums and sensitve people?????

No smoothsoul there is nothing there. Its just I get lots of warnings about things before they happen. I have comparison thoughts on events and bad feelings about things and I got nothing - I was so shocked like the rest of the community. I have had lots of experiences with spirits and I am surprized I have not seen anything. My friend is a devout christian and does not believe in my views.

Answer 1

the word suicide means nothing in the spirit world, you are not judged for breaking your contract on the earth, there is no hell and damnation for ending your own life. the fact that you are unable to detect their presence is probably down to the fact that that particular soul was deeply troubled here on earth and is now healing in spirit in a spiritul hospital if you like, they WILL make thier presence once this has happned.

Answer 2

I feel sorry for you're grief at the loss of you're friend's husband.

I think in the case of suicide's, a person doesn't always make any contact right away. And maybe not for along time.

Just as in life when we have done something we know others won't be to happy with, we avoid being with those people, ya know.

Now you mention not feeling anything from him? And he didn't want his wife to leave?

Please, forgive me if I am getting this totally wrong? But could you're involvement be more than meets the eye?

Or, were you just a close friend of both of them?

It just sounded funny, cause you would think it would be his wife that would be trying to sense something, but maybe not you necessarily.

So all this, plus suicide's are often confused people. If it was very sudden that he had done this, his spirit may not know yet that he has done this, you see?

He may not know that he is dead. That, or he may not have the strength right now, to make it through.

I think it takes time. There is a theory that astral bodies get heavier the longer they are over there.

Like, in Ghost, he had to learn, or actually take lessons about the difference in the density of matter, as well as how to have the right impact on that matter.

Example : the cat, and the cigarette machine
I wish you luck finding all you're answers, and that you're friend will recover when she feels ready, and to feel free to move on, when she is ready, or has forgiven him, or whatever will make her own situation work out for her.

Answer 3

it incredibly is my very own experience with an Ouija Board: as quickly as I asked the spirit what are the names of my destiny boyfriends, it basically printed the letter "M." All my 3 ex-boyfriends have been named Marcus, Matthew and Mark. I felt like i became cursed for the reason that all 3 relationships went down the drain. My final relationship lasted for 4 years and that i presumed we would make it and destroy the curse. i'm usually not a believer in superstitions and Ouija boards, besides the shown fact that, this incident has been giving me the creeps for years. Now I refuse to affiliate with human beings (particularly adult adult males) whose names commence with the letter “M”. Paranoid? perhaps. think of it became all a coincident? You be the choose.

Answer 4

Sometimes the spirits dont come back around really quick because they want to give the family time to heal some.An unexpected death is hard enough but when its at the persons own hand its much worse.Give it a couple months.I think you will start to notice little things moving around.

Answer 5

I will let you know, i am hoping that a relative of mine comes through, he committed suicide just under 2 years ago, I'm going to see Colin Fry in Birmingham in March, so i will let you know! Leave a message on my 360 page and ill get back in touch after i have been!!!

Answer 6

yes I'm sure there are people who are more sensitive than the norm but as person who has been touched by suicide they will contact when ready if its never OK but SOBS is great help ..for the nearest and dearest ..while you Waite but sure the departed left to lessen your pain so move on hard I know will not forget but sure we will meet eventually and get reason why ...I know its very very hard almost unbearable but ..your strong your still here for a reason...could be to fight in their corner who knows life is so unfair but who said it was going to be easy

Answer 7

I don't know that I am a Medium, per say, but one of my best friends committed suicide and has come to me several times, even awoke me out of dream to let me know he is ok and happy. I have a lot of dreams that come true. I don't advertise this, because people become wary of me.

Hope this helps!

Answer 8

He is probably at peace right now..that may be why he hasn't "hung around". he obviously was very miserable and hurt in his life, and now that it's all over, he is at peace.

Answer 9

They only come back if they have something unresolved. Apparently he's happier where he is. Leave the spirits alone, they'll let you know if they need you.

Answer 10

Perhaps he merely does not want to be contacted at this time or has already moved on?