Can you get married at 13 if a judge signs...?

Question

If the girl is pregnant can you get married if a judge signs and parental consent?

No I do not wanna get married I really don't but there seems to be no other choice.

Answer 1

yeah, if your under 18 all you need is a parent signature

Answer 2

yes with parent signature

however if you don't want to get married, don't
Sounds like a bad situition, however this is your first baby, take the responsibilty and love your baby as yours and not as a "mistake". Your baby didn't choose this and having a baby and being a mother is a really special time for you. You are not the ONLY young girl to get pregnant. I know right now everything seems like a disater, but if you make your decisions based on whats best for you and your baby NOT(what everyone is pressuring you to do, including keeping the baby after it is born) Then you will have no regrets even years down the road.

Answer 3

Don't get married b/c you are pregnant, I know that there is a negative stigma attached to having a baby out of wedlock, but you won't be doing the baby any favors entering into two adult situations at once. Even though you may love the father very much and want what is best, at your age marriage is not a good idea. You need to stay with your parents, who love you, and can help you through this very difficult time. I don't think they'd allow it, but I honestly don't know, I just know in my heart that you don't want to get married yet. You may end up marrying this very same guy years down the road, I can't tell you that, but I do know that it won't relieve any of the stress you are experiencing right now if you were to get married, it will only make it worse. Having a baby is going to change your life in huge ways, so can marriage. How about taking one enormous change at once? How about trying to hold on to what you can of being a teenager while you can? Don't do it yet, even if you are in love, even if you are scared about having a baby when you aren't married, trust me, it isn't that big of a deal. You will be okay. Good luck, just focus on being a good mother, later on in life you can worry about being a good wife.

Answer 4

Even if she could why would she at thirteen she probably still dosent even now what she wants to be when she grows up even if she is pregnant and decided to get married for that reason she shouldnt. Being married means payiny rent light gas grocerys ttransportation taking care of a newborn all this creates pressure that no thirtenn year old girl is ready for.If this girls partner is meant to be her forever at due time perhaps 20 or 21 then marriage should be considered if its going to work it will with or without that paper. That peice of paper is not going to make a diffrence when one partner decides having a family at such a young age is not what he or she wanted and wants out Dont get married at 13 its a huge mistake!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

I have never heard of that before.
Your a child at 13 why would someone let it happen. You should be playing with doll's or riding a bike not cooking your husband dinner or doing washing.
If it's true love,married life should be able to wait.
Don't get married because your having a baby.It's wrong.
I do hope the judge can't for the girl/boy sake.

Answer 6

Now that your boyfriend knows, it's way past time to tell your mother and father. You are 13 years-old? Depending how old your boyfriend is, he could go to prison for impregnating you. You need some serious help young lady, so get it now by going to your local health department along with your parents and explain your circumstances. Yes, you should get married for the sake of your child. Unfortunately, your parents and/or his parents are going to have to care for your child until you two are able to care for the child alone. But, for the sake of the child . . . do it.

Answer 7

Do you really want to take that big leap at this stage of your life? Sharing a child doesn't force you to have to marry that person, a child together can't make you love one another 9/10 chances. I don't know what to tell you except to think about how your life will change before you make such important decisions.

Answer 8

If your parents consent, then yes, but you really shouldn't. Pregnancy is not a justifiable reason to get married, even according to the Catholic Church. It is grounds for annullment later.

Answer 9

It depends on what state you live in. Parental consent is usually all that is required, if the law allows.

Answer 10

Sweetie you don't have to get married I would not suggest it the two of you may hate each other for it down the road just trust god it will all work itself out good luck.

Answer 11

No. No court would allow a 13 year old girl get married. Not only is that sick, it's down right dumb. She shouldn't have spread her legs and gotten pregnant in the 1st place.

If this girl goes before the courts and pleads her case, her parents will have to be entrusted with the baby once it is born, because the court is not going to leave an 8th grader in charge of an infant. If the parents don't want to the troubles of the baby, then it'll probably be taken by Child Protective Services.