My girlfriend is pregnant and claims to still be a virgin. What should I do?

Question

We have not had sex yet so would it be a virgin birth as she is claiming?

I think the kid could be the new Messiah and I should know I've followed a few lol. Ok but seriously this is one of those funny atheist type questions that one might find in the religious section of Yahoo Answers. Yep I have to admit that I just made the whole story up, just like religions do, sorry. I thought that people would say a virgin birth is completely ridiculous and I agree that it is. But there are some people in the world who do believe in such a thing. Well although it just started out as a funny question it was good to see that it did bring out a good and caring side in some people. I did feel a bit guilty as it was going on but you shouldn't feel bad as I think you have learned a little about yourselves. I was going to write something more profound than this as a sliver lining and comment some more about the answers but its really late here and my brain has long given up.

Answer 1

If your gf is pregnant then she is not a virgin. She's either cheating on you or had sex befor you two were going out. but i know how far along she is and how long you've been going out. try talking to her where there won't be any distractions and try to get to the bottom of this she's might be scared you'll leave her or something just ask her to be honest wit you

Answer 2

First are you sure she is pregnant? Has a doctor confirmed it?
Since virgin births are extremely rare, if she is pregnant then she cares enough about your feeling to at least not burden you with details of how she got that way, and with whom.

It sounds like you are both very young, and neither one of you has figured out your own emotional status just yet.

Or even that she might not yet know what she is saying, and the implications.

Is there anyone you both trust, who is adult, and both of you consider smart enough and caring enough to help you out.?

A doctor or a minister of your religion, or a teacher, maybe a parent. You need to talk to somebody with enough experience, and by that I mean TALK like with your mouths and sounds coming out and such. anonymous advice won't do.

Ask her if she and you do have such a friend.

Answer 3

well, i think it's a little hard to believe, however i remember an article in a seventeen magazine that said, if two people are just messing around with NO penetration and the guys ejaculates on the outside of her, the sperm can still find it's way to an egg. I've never heard of this actually happening to anyone i know, but appearently it's possible.

Answer 4

If you've never have had sex, and you have been naked, rubbing against her Virgina with your member, it is possible. Penetration, even tough usually way it's done, is not the the only way. If you did *** or even the pre ****, could have impregnated her.
Other wise, she's lying. Either way, Paternity test. Only way to make sure, if pregnant, it is yours. There is also a test , check up, a doctor can do to see if she is still a virgin. I'm just not sure if he would share that information with you or not.

Answer 5

Coming from a healthcare professional that has a very good knowledge of the human anatomy, this is virtually impossible. Unless her name is Mary, yours Joseph and she's to deliver this child in a manger, there is no way she has not had sexual inter course. It's possible that the experience she encountered was traumatic or just something she does not want to talk about..but at any rate, she's lying. Find out the truth!

Answer 6

well unless she is a hermaphrodite(some hermaphrodites have both male and female reproductive organs from the time they are born and they look normal) than she is lying and if you have not had sex then that means she had sex with someone else. My opinion, confront her and just ask her for the truth and then you have to make the decision to work through it or not be together anymore.

Answer 7

DId you not have any kind of genital contact at all, or have you fooled around near her genitals? Even if you did not ejaculate inside her, if you rubbed against her while aroused sperm can exit the penis prior to ejaculation, enter her, and cause a pregnancy. If this is not what happened, then she is cheating on you.

Answer 8

Please don't be stupid.
Run away from that girl.
Drop her like the lying, cheating, brat she is.
She got the semen from somewhere, if not you, then leave in a hurry.
She could get pregnant if you ejaculated ON her, and not in her.
That's probably why she still claims "virgin" status. She didn't let him inside her, but he either humped another hole, or spewed on her.

Answer 9

She could still be a virgin, but someone has gotten semen near enough for some to go inside. Yes, that can happen, and is not uncommon. So it's either you or someone else.

Answer 10

Dude, she's not a virgin. Shes lying. How can you believe her lies? pregnant yet still a virgin. She freaked another guy. Dump her a** ASAP. Sorry to be so blunt, but you need to move on.