the way i said sounded as if i hated all black men?

Question

i dont hate all black men. i dont hate anyone i just dislike their attitude like a lot of you said in my earlier question. i can proudly say i do love my colour but the way other people portray us to be is just degrading to a lot of black males and overall to the black communities all over the world. i do like white people more than my race. a lot of black people do not like white people because of their past history with us but we cannot judge all white people based one that. i am engaged to a white man and i love him dearly. and yes i am 17. we love each other and i do believe it wil work and my family accepts him and his accepts me. but i cannot get over not finding interest at all in my background and the black people i'm around. i am more interested in the white history. is this a bad thing. i asked a question like this one before. but i didnt realy explained myself. hope this question did.

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with being interested in 'white history,' but it would be wise to try to develop an appreciation for 'black history' as well. There have been a lot of significant contributions to America by people of color.

It makes more sense now that you are saying that you dislike their attitudes. If you came to the states just two years ago, I'm guessing that it is a culture clash that you are experiencing. (A friend of mine that came here from Jamaica a few years back had the same experience.)

At 17, most people have little interest in history of any kind. As you grow older, you may find that you WANT to learn more about black history or genealogy.

My concern here is that you may have some self-loathing attitudes. This is a BIG problem.

Answer 2

I think you've just discovered that love knows no boundaries. Congratulations! As for feeling disloyal to your own race, you need not be. Every race has its own richness and history. You can still be loyal to your people and love someone of another ethnic background. If all the world realized this, there would be a lot more peace in the world. Don't pay attention to what other people say, or how they portray members of your race. They are small-minded, prejudical individuals. I wish you and your fiance the best of luck. May you always know happiness!

Answer 3

you most certainly do have some issues to work on miss lady if you don't love you how in the h****** can you love someone else you need a wake up call you need to read about your history go to the library and read lady there are tons of books on our ancestory and how we were stolen and sold into slavery, beat, branded, raped.lie on, was fed food from the lowest animals scraps from the white man's table picking cotton from sun up to sun down beans, spinach was what we worked for sometimes we would come home with maybe 1.50 or 2.00 was a good day i was in the marches in the 60's i got a lot of stories i can tell you that is true we were not even allowed to eat in a resturant next to a white person let alone go in one, nor drink from their fountain, nor use their bathroon. i admirer the white people that stood beside me in the marches b/c their lives were even morer in danger then mine we all of from the human race that god made all our blood is red but still do not forget where you come from your race is proud people that has worked hard and did their part to make america the place it is today now you can marry a white man now a white man can marry a black woman with no fear but it has not alway's been that way some of the same black's you are ashame of came from someone that raised them most are still face with rasium and who are we to say what they have gone through and still going through don't just put it on all blacks it is good and bad in all race of people

Answer 4

Oh so you mean you dislike the ones that support the stereotype of a black man. Like being a "thief,liar,crackhead,etc." I can understand that. I mean just because your African doesn't mean you have to LIKE africa. I don't like some mexicans that live up to our stereotype. It's alright to dislike your own people as much as it is to dislike others. It's a natural human tendency. Buttt...heres something you really should consider. Learn African American History or African History. It's better to learn and know you didn't like it then only learn 1% of it and judge it.

Answer 5

It makes a lot of sense. However, your "race" has A TREMENDOUS AMOUNT TO BE PROUD OF, including overcoming adversity. They were treated, traded and considered no more than cattle and now they are (or I wish they were) considered equals on all levels. However, they have only truly been given true opportunities since the early 1970's. So, white society still has a tremendous way to go for equalization.

As far as you liking who you do, that's your preference and your choice, and I applaud that you stand up for yourself! However, please love and respect your family members as well as HIS. Because they are all, one as good as the other.

Answer 6

******* wanna be whit grinning up in white people face you should be proud of your own race you have some personal issues to solve your a looser balck people are strong independant have went through alot are beautiful people you act as if your dissing your own race you want to be white your a ******* looser your just like those black maids that grin up in white peoples faces and they dont give a damn about you your a looser you care more about white history and your balck wowwww !! you dont even know all the things blacks have done for you today if it wasnt for blacks fighting for your freedom you would still be picking cotton. If it werent for good blacks you wouldnt have the freedom to be dating black guys, If you want to learn about white history I guess you can learn about how white enslaved up tourted us and raped black women for fun. And then you say you like white more than your own race you dont have good damn since YOU ****** UNCLE TOM. I feel sorry for your little demented mixed kids.

Answer 7

Don't feel bad that black people don't find you appealing..I'm sure you could get a white man in 1..2..3..! lol

Answer 8

nicely not each white guy feels that way. yet i will truthfully say, from experience, some do. however the white adult adult males who date black women folk and "dislike" black adult adult males are actually not hating them. it is greater of a disliking element. and that they dislike "stereotypical" black adult adult males, for an identical reasons, maximum black human beings dislike there very own style. Stereotpyical black adult adult males are nasty, uneducated, ghetto, unemployeed, disrepectful, have 2 or greater infant mamas, are out and in of penal complex, and so on. And it incredibly is what maximum human beings (any race) dislike approximately stereotypical black adult adult males. Now If a excessive % of black adult males in nice condition that description in one way or yet another, than thats their fault. And thats why it is complicated for stereotypes too die. Stereotypes won't circulate away if human beings are consistently making them look ture data. So those white adult adult males (who date black women folk) dislike stereotypical black adult adult males. only like another guy or woman. they are actually not racist, otherwise they'd not be with a black female. toddlers? nicely if a white guy has toddlers, fairly boys, with a black women folk. he will strengthen his sons appropriate and to be the guy he's. only like each good father. He would not might desire to incredibly subject approximately his sons starting to be as much as be gangsters, excessive college drop-outs, drug sellers, and so on. because of the fact it incredibly isn't how him and his spouse will strengthen their young toddlers. And greater beneficial than probable, he would be a huge area of his infant's existence, and could furnish for his kin financially. So his young toddlers are actually not gonna strengthen up interior the ghetto. they won't be uncovered to that form of unfavourable atmosphere. So his sons won't strengthen as much as be stereotypical black adult males.

Answer 9

whatever...

Missy, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSES!!!! I'm sure black men do not think highly of you either.

Answer 10

I understand you completely.