She went beserk. She wont forgive me and wants a divorce. I think she is being unreasonable and selfish. Should I throw her out the house for not seeing things from my point of view?
2007-01-06 08:55:11 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SUCH a plonker !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did you not keep an eye on the time???????????
2007-01-06 09:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by MASON 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Who was she away with for the weekend? That would be my first question.
After that. I would say she came home early knowing or believing you have been unfaithful previously. Fully expecting to catch you in the act. No surprise. Just maybe shocked you were in your marriage bed doing it.
If this is true, (which I really doubt.) Then you should know tossing her is not really a great idea, because you will most likely be having more problems than you will desire to have with her lawyers , By the way lawyers that you will end up paying for most likely.
Best wishes.... I don`t believe you ... but... Good luck to her and you, on your new found freedom ... If I am mistaken, and it is true.
2007-01-07 09:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Starr H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife is right. I don't know what you are going to do. but I hope your wife will move on from you and live a better life.
how can you think she is unreasonable and selfish. when you 're the one sleep with her best friend. I don't understand is that you don't sound like you done anything wrong.
then what is the point of marriage or even two person comittied as a couple. how would you feel if you came home and catch your wife sleeping with your best friend.
Maybe you as a man have different persective of love should be. you think sex is just sex, love is love. but first of all, not all man are like that. and as woman, woman think of sex and love are together.
I felt sorry for your wife that she married a person doesn't know what true love is. It is going to be very very hard for you to get her back. it is still possible but then you have to use your true love and true heart and promise not to cheat on her again. ever.
but is that possible, then that is depends on your determination. do you think she deserved a man to love her like that and respect her like that. I think Yes. any person.
it is a respect, it is love. how can you do that to her. I hope you will change. I felt sorry for you. you had a true love and you didn' t know how to cherish well.
good luck for you and espically her. I will pray for her and espcially you, hope you will wake up some day realized HOW WRONG YOU ARE.
AMITOFO.
2007-01-06 09:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gooch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should throw her out. She must feel like she was not only betrayed by her husband, but also her best friend, so my advice would be to try and understand what she is going through. Sometimes griefing over a relationship, especially with cheating involved can be just as bad as mourning someone that died. And since she caught you red handed, she also has the image of the two of you in bed. Don't throw her out, work it out!
2007-01-06 09:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by airidonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious. Reverse the situation pal. I cannot say that she is right or wrong. Everyone is different in how much ones emotions can deal with. My husband cheated on me in September, I did not catch him, However, he told me because the other womans husband found out. I wanted him out so that I could have time to think about the situation. He didn't leave, and I'm glad he didn't. We are trying to work things out. It is really hard for a person to realize that their spouse loves someone else. Though the feelings are different for each person involved. I wish you the best of luck. My husband would sympathize with you. I sympathize with your wife.
2007-01-07 07:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not throw her out of the house. My suggestion is that since you find her best friend worth the loss of your marriage that you leave the house and see if the best friend will take you in. When you become older and more mature this will be an episode you will come to regret. Sadly, a marriage like yours can never be restored. Her best friend took her husband and her husband took her best friend and in her bed as well.
2007-01-06 09:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by lovenote_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, my friend are lucky you still have all your body parts. Bizerk begins with the same letter as Bobbit and we all know what she did when she ran into the same scenario.
I think you both would do well with seeing a counselor, seperately at first then together if there is still a need for it. You need to find out why you did what you did. Are you unhappy in your marriage, obviously, and why are you unhappy. Is your wife not exciting etc. Then if this is something that you can get to the root of, and find out that this is something that you want to salvage, you'll need to go to couples counseling so she can find out what led you to do what you did and how she can come to terms with it. I wish you luck.
2007-01-06 09:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's your fault for making her act this way!! You know you wrong for cheating on your wife anyway. This is a hard pill to swallow any one in there right mine would want a divorce! She is hurted and anger with you for doing this to her any women would. She's is not selfish at all I think you the one who is selfish you want your cake and eat it too! When you married this women you made a promise to love, and honor her,but you didn't keep your promise to her and that's why she is going to do this.
2007-01-06 09:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming this is a genuine situation, and not something you've made up for a laugh...
You think SHE is selfish and unreasonable!!!
Which one of you was being unfaithful???
I think she should throw YOU out of the house.
If you were my husband and this had happened, I'd react in just the same way.
You really can't love your wife if you behaved like this
2007-01-06 08:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by chip2001 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why want such a happy womaniser like you would want to have A wife?
Leave that for sad people who can take their vows seriously; Who want to respect and honour the person they chose to marry.
Nah, marriage doesn't suit you. There's no good enough wife for you.
You're not into marriage and respect and love.
Yeah, you're totally right; She should see things from your point of view and totally give you your freedom back.
You should marry that best friend of her. There's one who would know how to treat you!
Oh, so unfair on you.
2007-01-06 09:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! How is she being unreasonable, oh no I'm sorry you're right, she was early, how dare she! Are you kidding! You should be doing everything you can trying to make it up to her, sell you're body parts if she wanted and even then she'd have every right to never want to see you again. You've really hurt the poor woman, how dare you think that this is her problem! And with her best friend?????? What the hell is wrong with you! My sympathies for your poor wife
2007-01-06 08:58:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋