he said when i confronted him it was just a throw away line, I am not sure, he is not doing anything else different to normal
2007-01-06 08:49:50 · 25 answers · asked by ladyblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time to hire a private investigator and an attorney and start protecting yourself financially. You have my sympathy and best wishes.
2007-01-06 08:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love you is not a throw away line. on the other hand, I say I love you to a very good friend of mine all the time, and nothing is going on between us. So while he may be saying that to express how he feels about a friend, you know your spouse best and if you have a gut feeling that he is expressing a friendship feeling, you're probably going to be right. As much as I hate to say it, keep on his mail. Or get someone to observe him. If you want to know the truth this may be the only way.
2007-01-06 08:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by yzma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your gut says there's something going on, then it probably is. I know he said it was just a throw away line, but that's a REALLY personal line to send to anyone but your wife or girlfriend. If there are other clues and signs I would pay attention to them as well. And, normal is NOT saying "I love you" to someone you work with...
2007-01-06 08:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny S. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit unsettling when a spouse writes those words of 'I love you' to the opposite gender and it is not you. You have the right to be curious to know what is going on - have your husband explain why he wrote that. If he says it is no big deal than let it go. But if he keeps writing that to this individual I suggest you share your concerns and ask him not to write to that person again. If he loves you than he will listen and not write to her. If he doesn't listen, than maybe other things are going on that you may not be aware of. Get counseling and ask for help if things get overwhelming.
2007-01-06 08:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have other signs of trouble don't worry about it. I do the same thing with one of my male friends. Plus, I found that if you can meet the person he cares so much for you can see for yourself. My husband works with a women who is always giving him ties, which annoyed me no end(which I didn't let him know)but after having dinner with her and her husband a couple of times we have developed our own relationships and the ties don't matter. My husband likes the cartoon ties, which she can find cheaper than I can so what. In turn we buy her chocolate candy her fave.
2007-01-06 08:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by georgiabanksmartin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there must be a reason why you were reading through your husband's emails.... Were you suspicious or just nosy?
I wouldn't trust a guy who says "I love you" to a female colleague unless he says that to all of his friends.
2007-01-06 08:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be just a line...in fact, my auto signature for my personal mails is love, and then I sign my name. I guess it is normal...everyone knows what I mean by it and that it is very platonic. So I feel it depends on what kind of an individual he is.
2007-01-06 08:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by SP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throw away line never heard that one is it that when he tells it to you? If it is a so called throw away line it shouldn't be.
2007-01-06 08:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not a throw away line. Most people find it hard to even SAY it. I'd find out more about this or throw HIM away.
2007-01-06 08:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
it would give me reason to wonder why he would use those words to a colleague. i would not feel real good about it, just keep your eyes open, don't nag, or confront, just be aware of everything, and don't discount anything u feel isn't quite right.
2007-01-06 12:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's throwing her a line alright and you need to find out what the ulterior motive is.
2007-01-06 08:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋