what website do i go to to steal a layout from a friend like a layout stealer?

Answer 1

You don't. Right-click on the page you want to see the coding for, and click view source. (You'll have to sort out what you need by yourself though)
But seriously, why do you want to steal your friend's layout? They'll probably hate you for it, but if you ask for it they might give it to you.

Answer 2

Do you want to steal from a friend?
It isn't nice.