2007-01-06 07:43:32 · 40 answers · asked by Little C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Of course you should tell her that it's better to wait until she's older. But if she's anything like the average teenager she probably won't be paying much attention to that when the time comes. It's far more important to teach her about STD's and how they are contracted. Things like:
HIV and AIDS, Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, Genital Herpes, Genital Warts, Syphilis, Viral Hepatitis, Trichomoniasis, Bacterial vaginosis, Pubic lice, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, etc...
And then tell her all about condoms so she will know exactly how she should protect herself. Hopefully just learning about all those things might be enough to put her off doing it for a few years. :-)
Read this: http://www.4parents.gov/talkteen/donttalk.htm
2007-01-06 16:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you would have to sit down and talk to her about it..there is really nothing else that you can do. You cant be with her 24/7 so if she is planning to have sex, you cant be there ALL the time to make sure she does or doesnt, talk to her real good,make sure she understands what she is getting herself into before she goes off and has sex.
2007-01-06 10:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an issue but don't go too crazy talk to her make sure you're correct before you make publicity of it have a talk with her mate also make sure they learn about what they are doing before they lay another kiss on furnature
2007-01-06 10:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to talk her out of it first, but don't loose her trust by getting her in trouble, otherwise she will stop coming to you with her problems. If you think she'll have sex anyway, then at least teach her about birth control.
2007-01-06 08:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this time and life kids seems to growing up too fast peer pressure.i might just talk to my niece to ask her what is going on with her. then i might just have a talk to my brother or sister about the situation.
2007-01-06 08:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by dmtrsphllps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is way to young to have a baby. If my girl was thinking about babies I would introduce her to one of those computer babies that are very life like and can be programmed the same as a real baby . With babies needs . Remember babies are not toys that can be discarded at will . they are yours for life and so doing need carefull planing.
2007-01-06 20:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by The Heartbreaker. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't let her parents know. they will have a fit and take away all priveliges she has. talk to her, but don't be mean. tell her about condoms and birth control pills, so she can have safe sex. also make sure she does not become a prostitute.
2007-01-06 09:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give her all the information she needs to be safe and let her know that she can talk to you about it. Saying 'no' won't work - she'll do it anyway, and probably in secret where you can't know if she's taking precautions or in a safe environment.
2007-01-06 07:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she feels really comferatble talking to u then have a serious grown up chat with her telling her ALL the facts then speak to her mum telling her that shes thinking about sex and then leave it at that
2007-01-06 10:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caution strongly against it. It's risky physically and emotionally and in any case, it's illegal if the boy she plans on sleeping with is over 16. He can be prosecuted.
2007-01-06 07:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋