2007-01-06 07:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sherry E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of course not we all need some change in our lifes or we become boring, just because you got children that you love, a man that you love why should you feel guilty, it makes you happy to just know that you got friends that you can count on, go out once and a blue moon, a cup of coffee with friends, a night out have some fun you deserve it, i bet your man goes out, thats what keeps us insane.
2007-01-06 07:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Just because your a mother and a wife doesn't mean that you are no longer ''allowed'' to have fun sometimes. Everyone needs to get out every now and then and enjoy it without having to feel guilty for it.
2007-01-06 07:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily!! don't experience undesirable or responsible for feeling this sort. you're a hundred% everyday! i replaced into (and am at situations) the place you at the instant are. I even have discovered to take at some point each and every week for ME. each and every Friday jointly as the toddlers are at school I go away while they do and spend the day even nevertheless i pick. No whining youngsters, no hubby, merely me! It has completed me a international of robust and wager what? the homestead did no longer crumble, the animals nonetheless get fed, i'm plenty extra affected person with youngsters and hubby subsequently of my one unfastened day.. Chin up!! you're feeling like quite a few different mom available!!
2016-11-27 00:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time with your girl friends and stuff is good u need to be able to get out once and a while and enjoy your self but your family does come first as long as your not out all night or gone all day and your children and husband no where u r its ok and u shouldnt feel guilty
2007-01-06 07:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, AS LONG AS YOUR HUSBAND APPROVES THEN WHY
FEEL GUILTY. YOUR JUST GOING TO HANG WITH YOUR FRIENDS. YOU HAVE A LIFE TOO, THERE IS NO LAW SAYING
A WIFE JOB IS TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE NO FRIENDS,
NO LIFE. YOU WORK HARD AT HOME, WITH THE CHILDREN,
KEEPING UP WITH THE HOUSE, LOVING YOUR HUSBAND,
NOW YOU EARNED QUALITY TIME ALONE AND YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS. SO GO OUT FOR
A FEW HOURS. MAKE A LUNCH DATE WITH ALL YOUR
FRIENDS, GET TOGETHER IN WHAT EVER PLANS AS
LONG AS YOUR FAITHFUL TO YOUR FAMILY. HAVE
FUN. ONCE IN A WHILE IS FINE.
2007-01-06 08:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, you go out when you want to. *sometimes* shouldn't make you feel guilty. you should only feel guilty if you're doing something wrong. if you're a loving mother and wife, you should know right from wrong. right?
2007-01-06 08:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by geezer 51 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from as they used to say. well this is easy. Turn it around. If he had the same type of friends, would it be okay for him to do whatever you are doing? Yes or No?
I love to dance but my husband hates it. So I went out with my single girlfriends. But I know every guy in the dance bar is looking to get l***. So would it be okay for him if your husband were you? Would you want him to go out with his pals who were like yours? Be fair. You're married.
2007-01-06 07:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL! Everyone needs their own personal time with their friends! Party on sister! (As long as you know what your limits are....no cheating!) You DESERVE your friend time, never feel guilty about that!
2007-01-06 07:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by oracle1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
N o,but give respect to your commitments as a wife and mother. You don´t have to flirt in order to have a goodtime.
2007-01-06 07:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If its only here and there then its ok, but remember when you decided to have kids it meant that you have to give up your life for your kids, and not so much for yourself. That's just the way it goes when you become a parent.
2007-01-06 07:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋