Especially after divorce 9 years back, she is surprised at her 22 year old son's abusive behaviour whenever he comes to meet her once in months. I want to bring smiles on her face and she is aged 56. How can I do that? She says she knows every positive word and nothing can soothe her spirit and that she is just waiting to die although she is having a high-profile job and excellent health. But she hates life and does not want to marry again or even share anything good/positive about life with a stranger like myself who is coming a step ahead to ensure she starts loving life. Her continous refusal to my so many emails, phone calls, sms and meetings simply makes me go crazy as i am trying to make her happy but she REFUSES any kind of help from me. what should i do?
2007-01-06 07:28:40 · 2 answers · asked by Amir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nobody can be unhappier than someone who is determined to be. She is responsible for her own happiness and NO ONE can change her but herself. And apparently this is getting her the attention she is wanting. What should you do? How about spending your time with POSITIVE thinking friends whom you can enjoy? There is so much in this world to make the journey enjoyable. I don't want to waste a minute of my life on people who are attending their own perpetual pity party.
2007-01-06 07:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just not very social, letting her take a break from you might be a good start. You seam kinda pushy
2007-01-06 07:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by propboost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋