I asked my friend if she wanted to sleep over at my house and i told her to call me at seven but instead, she ditched me for a friend at the movies and didn't even calll last night what should i do?
2007-01-06 07:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow. this is a tough one. Ive been here before. There really is nothing you can do. Just let it blow over. A lot of the time what happens is they will go with who ever has the most influence over the group or who they feel closest to at that time. Don't take it personally. But I do know how you feel. Probably like crap, right? That kind of sick to your stomach feeling? Well don't feel bad. It happens to all of us, and it will be OK. It will work out on its own. But there is nothing you should or ultimately can do.
2007-01-06 07:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Frannie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and tell her right up front, how you feel. If she is a good friend, a true friend, she'll realize what happened and how you felt and apologize. If she doesn't or doesn't seem to care, then you'll know where your friendship stands and even what kind of a person she is! Good luck!
2007-01-06 15:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to be that way so be it your better than that anyone who dosnt even have the class to call to say she wasnt coming doent deserve your time dont lose sleep over this cause shes notworth it you should however confront her about this then never invite her again for a sleep over
2007-01-06 15:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by hallowsevenight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this seems like the end of the world for you, but it isn't. You have ALL the right to be angry. Talk to her, and tell here that what she did really hurt you. Ask her why she did this. And, try to forgive and forget. If you need more advice, e-mail me at it_girl1123@yahoo.com
2007-01-06 15:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by yoooooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was rude of her to not call you but I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. I just would probably spend more time with other friends at least for awhile.
2007-01-06 15:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly enough i know what your going through. that happens to me once in a while and what i do is confront them but not in a mean way because she will think your mad (which you probably are) and she will get mad at you and defensive. just talk to her about it. if shes any kind of friend shell still be your frined and not get mad when you confront her. Good luck!
2007-01-06 15:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ring her and then ask her if she had a good time, if she doesnt get the hint then ask her straight out, 'Why did you ditch me and go to the cinima instead' and see what she says
2007-01-06 15:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by esco275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her...or talk 2 her @ school, then tell her "umm that wast very cool y did u do that 2 me,are you my friend??,true friends dont do that u no!
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2007-01-06 15:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id diffently talk to her and soemtimes if feels good to get in to a argue meant just to get some things out mabye she has a reason ask her
2007-01-06 15:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her. shes a loser and not a true friend for ditching u like that.
2007-01-06 15:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋