I am very much married, & happily, to a very nice guy; however, i also have an officemate who is so into me i am really aroused by the interest he shows on me... emotionally & sexually. We recently had a daring sexual intercourse on a company xmas party (where my husband was present also, but was totally unaware that my horny coworker was mating me). Since then, my days at the office have been very hot, as my officemate was always kissing and caressing the most sensitive parts of my body, & is always begging me to give myself to him once more. I felt guilty with what has happened at the party, as i love my husband so much, but i've to admit i'm also very tempted to my officemate. I plan to let him have his way on me but to a certain limit... only up to his licking of my vagina, as i was in ecstasy when he did that to me during the party. I think he eats me extremely well. However, i don't wanna give myself completely to him, as he may impregnate me. How can i resist it after a licking?
2007-01-06 07:08:31 · 10 answers · asked by jenny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shame on you. : (
2007-01-06 07:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Stop where you're out....temptation is something everyone deals with every day. You are married. What you've done is wrong already. You said you feel guilty already...there's your answer. I'm no one to judge but I think you have already messed up your marriage. If your husband were to find out and everyone is different, I'm sure he'd be a pretty pissed off guy. It's pretty obvious that if you're liking this guy sexually and emotionally then you're missing something at home. Maybe you need to have a conversation with your husband, tell him what you like and don't like. This coworker is nothing but trouble especially if he knows you're married! The pregnant situation is completely self explanatory. Good Luck, I hope you make the right decision.
2007-01-06 15:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many are taking the condemning approach but that won't help your situation because you already know its wrong and don't need to be told that over and over. Let me just answer your question by saying no you cannot resist. You cannot even resist having another go because you are thinking about it constantly. It feels great to be wanted, it feels wonderful to be the object of a desire...and getting your rocks off doesnt feel half bad either. If you continue allowing this, you are just going to fantasize about it more, want it more, and allow it more. This will ruin your marriage. You know that as wonderful and powerful as these feelings are both physically and emotionally, it is not worth your marriage. You must resist thinking about it, dwelling on it and tell your co worker that for the sake of your marriage you have to stop communicating with him. He should be flattered he has had such an effect on you. I know I am a man but I felt you would prefer hearing this over how wrong you are from everyone else.
2007-01-06 15:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by KB 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your toying with disaster girl. If you notice what is going on, little by little your giving in more and more to temptation and sooner or later your going to do the complete act. It appears that you have no respect for yourself or your marriage, let alone your husband. Sure it is nice to flirt and be wanted, play office games and be adventurous, but at what risk? Ask yourself if it is worth the quick cheap affair to risk everything? Stop the games before it is too late, if it isn't already.
2007-01-06 16:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went too far in the beginning. There is only one thing that you can do, it that thing is to turn back to your marriage, hope your husband never finds out and leaves you. Why do women get themselves in trouble like this, and then tell the rest of the world that they love their husbands? Love doesn't act like that!
2007-01-06 16:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, that is so wrong! Your cheating on your husband! You can't sit there and say how much you love him but say you screwing the guy you work with, oral is still cheating!!!! Whats wrong with you. Atleast be a women about it and tell your husband your cheating so he can get out now before you hurt him even more!
2007-01-06 15:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by happywifenmom21@verizon.net 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Time to quit your Job. It is very wrong for you to continue this relationship. We all make mistakes, let this one with this office worker, be your first and last. You must quit this job and soon. Hey how would you like it if the shoe was on the other foot and he was doing this with is office worker?
Quit THIS JOB!!
2007-01-06 15:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by majean52 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you are playing with the devil,you had better get your head on straight and decide who you want to be with. your poor husband and the guy you are leading on there is a name for someone like you and i guess you know what that is.
2007-01-06 19:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am NOT going to let you know if I am male or female but how in the world can you go home to your husband knowing what you are doing? It is obivious you have NO RESPECT for your husband , let alone RESPECT for yourself.
2007-01-06 15:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by nickle 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Stop before you make a huge mistake
2007-01-06 15:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋