i'm more attracted to white guys than black guys, but regardless of that, both the white AND the black guys at my school are OBSESSED with the white girls...my mom says it's b/c they think they white girls are "easy" i personally don't find this entirely true, but what can i do???
2007-01-06 06:56:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
you must do what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do.
2007-01-06 07:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just do your thing. Dating is always hard, and like everything else in life, race can sometimes get in the way of a good thing.
I'm a little worried that you're so focsed on race. Being white myself, I'd be happier if it wasn't an issue, especially where it doesn't have to be one.
Just keep trying with the guys you like, whatever their race. Some will go for you, some will not. Some will just want your body, and some will just want to hurt you. With a few of these goons, you can tell right away what they're like, but with most of them you just have to find out for yourself. Most girls end up kissing a lot of frogs before they meet their prince.
2007-01-06 15:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you like white guys, go for it. They may not show interest now, but that's ok.
You will find the right guy for you.
I know a white woman that married a black man from Kenya. Their marriage is really good. They have 3 kids. (mixed race babies are the CUTEST kids ever. Their skin tone is pretty.)
As for white girls being "easy."
Some are, but not all. I'm white. I have noticed that some are easy, but I have also noticed that for just about every easy one, there is one that is not easy. Just like black girls. Not every white girl is easy, not every black girl is easy. We are people. That's that.
I have quite a few white friends that are virgins or that have a boyfriend that they have been with for a very long time, in fact.
A guy for you will come around. Just be yourself.
-Miranda
2007-01-06 15:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by miranda2586 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that its because both white and black guys have a stereotyped image of how black girls are. People assume that black girls are hard to get along with, loud, and come with lots of baggage and drama. Try friendship first ... show the guy you're interested in that this stereotype is inaccurate and certainly doesn't describe you!
2007-01-06 15:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all white girls are easy i know im not. im a white girl but i like black guys theres nothing wrong with it so you dont have to worry about doing any thing
2007-01-09 17:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can't help who they are attracted to. I think white guys are the most attracted to exotic looking girls. Like girls that are bi-racial. That makes white guys gaga.
2007-01-06 18:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your mom says that. She wants to make you feel better so she'll make up any excuse. Try dating outside of your school. That's what I always did because too many damn people know everything in your high school. My sister is white and is only attracted to black guys so I think that is just preference.
2007-01-06 15:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not weird or anything.I more attracted to white guys too.There should be a decent guy at your school that doesn't just go after the "easy girls" (I don't thinkg white girls are easy).
2007-01-06 15:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by WWE Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is not really a fact. I notice a lot of white men are really attracted to black ladies. I do also notice a lot of black men do not want anything to do with white women.
It's all in your perception. Skin color does not really matter. Change your attitude. Be bold, beautiful, self-assured, well groomed, well dressed and smart: Men will flock to you.
2007-01-06 15:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come to Germany- I could imagine that most German men would find black women interesting! The stigma that is associated with black people here is not nearly as pronounced as it is in the U.S.
2007-01-06 15:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by juergens_ingo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to a white guy , they will listen , i have been with a few black women and they were very fun to be around
2007-01-06 14:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋