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2007-01-06 06:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
people who take things to heart, are usually the people that have a good soul. so don't look at this as a bad thing. you are a very conscientious person and that usually makes a responsible adult. when you take something to heart, is meaning that you are really evaluating the situation and this can make you either happy or unhappy with the results - but, at least, you took the time to think it through. i think it's a good thing. be happy.
2007-01-06 07:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always take things to heart, too. its a hard habit to break.
but i have learned to tell myself something..
"It isnt my job to make anyone else happy."
if you think about it, you take things to heart because it comes from other people saying things to you, right?
well, it isnt your job to make them happy. if someone says something to you that hurts you, remember that in situations like that, you need only worry about yourself. whenever someone makes you feel like less of a person, only worry about yourself. and dont let it get to you so much by realizing that.
2007-01-06 06:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop a thicker shell. Don't care so much about what people say about you........care about what you think of yourself. You cannot please everyone in this world, once you realize that you'll feel a lot better.
2007-01-06 06:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kati B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you can't...and that isn't a bad thing. Use it as a good thing
2007-01-06 07:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Spades Of Columbia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like what?
2007-01-06 06:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun get wat ur talking about sorry
2007-01-06 06:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋