what fun things can you do with your wife? (not sex)?

Question

been lacking fun. life has become stale.
any ideas for inexpensive fun?
(apart from movies and restaurants)

I do cook on weekdays, she cooks on weekends. Have done inviting others - gets boring when not invited back in return.

we do go to the park 2-3 times a week, boring. Board games, boring.

Answer 1

Dancing, walking, exercising, non-credit courses.

Answer 2

Maybe try something you're both new (and not necessarily good) at, like learning to dance from a DVD (much less expensive than actual lessons). You never know, doing something you wouldn't ordinarily do and that is challenging can bring about lots of laughter and bonding. How about cooking together? - Maybe making a fancy meal. With some wine and music a common, everyday activity could be made into a fun and romantic endeavor.

Answer 3

Fantastic!!

My husband and I are answering this together as something inexpensive and fun to do. *wink*

Other things we do, have done or put on to do list:

Search the paper for free community/cultural events
Read books together
Write books together, any genre, you write a few pages paragraphs taking the plot in a new direction, throw a curveball and give it back
Rent books from library on learning...a new language, to knit, oragami, ball room dance
Non-credit college courses
Try new recipes off of the internet together (can't go wrong with thai)
Go to ethnic supermarkets and try a new product -- (just not the black toothpaste in the red plastic jar -- no kisses for a week!!)
Play card games, board games, playstation
Go to the amusement park for kids - jump in the bouncer!!
Jump on the bed!!
Play a game where you think of Category and go back in forth alphabetically in a rapid fashion...'bands' abba, booradleys, chicago
Look at youtube and myspace at some of the 'unique' people of the world
Answer yahoo questions together
Use soundboards on ebaums world to prank phone call one another
Enhance your vocabulary with a new word each day
Read poetry to one another
write love coupons to one another
Plan a dream vacation together and do the research now
check on the legality of the following before continuing
Call the 1-800 numbers from infomercials with 'interesting' questions about the product lines...
Call toll free web support lines..."Whats a browser?"

Answer 4

Go to the local dance clubs and learn to dance together, ball room to western. Join a bowling league. Learn to play tennis .
Learn to ride motorcycles . Join an organization that helps the community and work it together. Surprise your wife with a massage, given by you. Serve your wife breakfast in bed.
Draw your wifes bath water and join in .
In front of the tv , lay a blanket on the floor and have a picnic, instead of dinner at the table.
Walk up behind her and nibble on her ear for no reason and tell her you love her.
Leave a note in her wallet telling her you love her.
Leave a note on the refrigerator telling her you can wait till you see her again that evening.
Leave a note on her car saying I missed you today.
One flower for not reason .
Drop roses petal leading to the bed room .
Walk up and give her a hug and a smile and a little wink when she is doing the laundry or cleaning the house , then pitch in and help .
Its the little things in life that gives you happiness
Good luck and God Bless

Answer 5

Play some games!
Cribbage, monoply, other board games.
Go to museums & parks, zoos, concerts.
My hub & I can find fun anywhere--sometimes we go to our local dollar store and just look at everything, then we buy something silly like those big foam airplanes, or glow sticks, and go home & play!
Go to a bar that has karaoke & sing love songs to each other, fly a kite, do something KID-like that will help recapture your sense of fun!!

Good for you for trying to keep the magic alive, and may God bless both of you!!

Answer 6

You should meet in a park, or somewhere open and pretend you have never met before. Rekindle the old attraction by trying to 'pull' each other again. End the night with kisses and cuddles and arange another 'date' and build up to sex like you did when you first met. Works a treat!

Answer 7

You can work out together (at home or join a gym), or go for walks at the local track or park. Also try playing some games or cards together. Try taking a mini vacation once in awhile.

Answer 8

I don't know if this will help or not but maybe you could take her someone like an ice skating or just a skating rink. Or you could join some sort of sports team - indoor volleyball or tennis or something like that. You'll get fit, learn something new and have fun while you're at it.

Answer 9

Go to a nude beach!!!No seriously, what hobbies do you have that would break up the monotony? Plant a garden, get busy together, volunteer somewhere you both are interested in. Paint her nails, let her wax your legs anything that will mix up the norm.
Take a class together help each other with homework there are grants.

Answer 10

Walks, Playing games (Cards, board games) Watchin tv together, TALKING, Days out to the fair, parks, walk dog, holidays, bowling, ice skating, swimming, doing fitness things, gym!

Answer 11

Bowling, playing pool,....doing new things or trying new things together is always fun. Try laser tag!! I'm partial to long talks. I like sitting and talking somewhere nice. I love the beach. But I think guys aren't into talking