ok here's my problem::my friends wanted me 2 go to the mall with them (again) this weekend and my mom said no. but shez alwayz talken about how she wantz 2 meet ma friendz nd i said kan they kome over?? nd she said no. i hate it becuz ppl r alwayz invitin me 2 go to the moviez, da mall, nd partiez wit them nd i have to say no. i feel horrible bcuz of thiz and im afraid i might lose some friendz bcuz i no if a friend kept tellin me no id get mad. wat do i do?? did thiz evr happen 2 u?? im 12 almost 13 in 3 monthz.
2007-01-06 06:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Sexc Nel Nel♥ 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
maybe u should just stay home & learn English & Spelling
2007-01-06 06:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sue F 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
First of all. Spell correctly, you sound like a fool. Second, you are 12 years old. You have no business going out to the mall, and parties and stuff like that. Listen to your mom, stay in school, pay attention in English class, and worry about this stuff when you're '17 almost 18 in 3 monthz.'
This never happened to me because my mother raised me well.
And third, you're 12 years old. You have no business having that screen name. If you were my daughter with that screen name, you really wouldn't be going anywhere unless you went with me where I go and I picked out the clothing that you wear. You would be my responsibility and I'll be damed the day my daughter thinks she's "sexc" and 12 years old.
2007-01-06 14:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your 12 years old your mom is probably just worried about you. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Yes when I was your age and older than you, my parents didn't let me do anything I couldn't talk on the phone, go to movies, malls, bowling, skating, we didn't have a computer so I didn't go on the internet/computer, unless I was in school. I didn't even play outside with other kids or anything. So I can understand, but now I don't regret it because I know my parents love me and they were looking out for me. There are so many things going on in the world, and you hear about kids being missing on the news its scary. My parents were looking out for me. Just talk to your parents about it let them know how you feel. Maybe they could let some of your friends sleep over sometime. You your mom could maybe take you to the mall with your friends. And if your friends get mad at you, then they are not really your friends trust me. Good luck :)
2007-01-06 14:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by summer ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my mother was pretty strict when i was your age, and i hated it too. Your mother cares about you. I know it sounds lame but its true. She is not doing it to be mean believe me. If she didn't care then she would let you come and go as you please. Just look at Lindsey Lohan, Nicole Ritchie, and all the rest of them who have been doing what they want from day one. I'm not saying that your mother is totally right, but as a parent with a 13yr old girl that I love very much, I do understand. But i also know that being to strict can cause the opposite effect also. But just try to understand and be thankful that you have a mother who cares enough to say no.
2007-01-06 14:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get around this situation is to have your mom meet your friends parents. Once the parents know each other, your mom may feel that it's alright for you to go out with your friends. I'm 36 now but when I was your age, in order for me to be able to hang with friends my mom had to meet theirs. Once that happened, I was able to hang at their hiuse, they were able to come to mine, we went places together and even spent the night at each others house. So try doing it that way. Even if it means a brief conversation on the phone between parents, it's worth it if you want to hang with your friends and have your mom trust you.
Good Luck!
2007-01-06 14:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by WillLynn 1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes my mom does this all the time too....i kno it sucks..but the good part is that i never lost any friends b/c i told them the truth..that my mom said no and i cant come..so its ok..but i would like it if my mom would let me go out wit my friends too..
2007-01-06 14:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by lilcrzygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask yo mom nicely and ask how she would feel if she kept gettin turned down by her freinds all the time
2007-01-06 14:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by shtopramen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is a common situation to have from someone your age...jusy feel happy that people are inviting you to go to places with them
2007-01-06 14:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens, and will continue so till you get 18, i had to endure when i was told no, so be prepared
2007-01-06 14:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send their butts to get you something for once
2007-01-06 14:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋