2007-01-06 06:27:41 · 18 answers · asked by edlangmead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what should she do and is it wise
2007-01-06 06:29:11 · update #1
Oh...bad bad bad!! She's risking her job and her reputation. Advise her to stop no matter what his advances are.
2007-01-06 06:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh, this guy is instigating it, he is telling her that his relationship with his wife is crap, that hes thinking of leaving her and that they dont have sex together. gem is too good for this. she feels guilty as he is married but she cant help it as she has fallen for him. hes the rat, not her she is the victim in all this. he must be a rat to be having gem as a bit on the side cz she deserves more!! this guy is having his cake and eating it. he'll get caught but i hope gem doesnt get the **** for it xx your her friend, be there for her but done let on that you know, just be her friend thats what she needs right now xX
2007-01-06 21:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend Gem is a fool - the boss is using his position to get what he wants; when he has it, he will want to get rid of the evidence (Gem). My husband is a boss, and that's what he'd do if he screwed around.
2007-01-06 06:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad when Gem is all the sudden making twice as much as you are. As a Man, I have a hard time playing in that unevenest of playing fields.
Addition: Next week, she's buying lunch.
2007-01-06 06:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend gem has a real *** for a boss and if your freind gem tries to end that she won't have a job he is a perve and she isnt very smart to mess with the boss
2007-01-06 06:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gem is a foolish girl and walking right into a hornets nest. Walk away and dont get involved.
2007-01-06 06:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may be instigating it, but if she wanted to stop it she would have DONE IT BY NOW. She is committing adultry because this guy is married. It will cause alot of problems for her.
2007-01-06 06:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should say no to her boss, it is very dangerous to carry on, if things go wrong (which i'm sure they will) she stands to lose everything, Job, Self Respect, also get a very bad name for herself
2007-01-06 06:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by grace k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is instigating it, doesn't mean she has to go along with it. It's wrong, the answer is pretty obvious.
2007-01-06 06:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she plays it right, she can have a better job and more money in a really short time, then quit and get a similar job in a different company. she just needs to be smart about it and not get her feelings involved.
2007-01-06 06:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by prettyme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋