I have a question for men out there. Why would you be scared if your gilfriends suggested to move in together? My boyfriend lives in a very small flat in a very expensive city. He is trying to establish his career so I know he is under quite a lot of pressure. I mentioned to him the other day that we could try to live together but he got all scared telling me that he is not ready for that? Does it mean he does not love me and I am not the girl for him?
2007-01-06 06:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does love you but he likes his own space..wait until he is ready..dont push it or you will lose him.
2007-01-06 06:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he enjoys his independance and space and he doesn't want to share it right now. His career is obviously important as is having his own space so coupled together those would be his reluctance to getting a place together so its nothing personal. I think you would know if it were anything else.
Stop worrying and start living.
2007-01-06 14:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, will you cook and clean his clothes etc.?
If he is under alot of pressure, suggesting you will look after him like that will help as microwave meals do suck after a while
2007-01-06 14:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean he does not love you but you have tried to push things too fast. let him do the suggesting and if you agree then be hesitant about it. Like it or lump it men have to do the chasing or they cut and run in the opposite direction.
2007-01-06 14:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is frightened of losing his territory... You have any idea how defensive guys get about their space???? There'll be your panties all over the place, his wardrobe will be cluttered with your clothes.. YEESH!!! :D
2007-01-06 14:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, It just means that the relationship isn't where you think it is yet, just slow down, and if he wants you their he will let you know.
2007-01-06 14:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that he has another piece on the side and believes it can't be hided with you there.
2007-01-06 14:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Spades Of Columbia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he still wants his own space don't take if to heart
2007-01-06 14:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by buffeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't like pressure back of?????????????????????
2007-01-06 14:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya that what it means...............
2007-01-06 14:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋