does that mean i dont love him we having a bad patch?
2007-01-06 06:24:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it doesn't mean you don't love him it simply means you like the time yall have apart to do what you want to do and focus on you without him.
2007-01-06 06:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to ask other people if you love someone - you should know yourself. The fact that you don't miss him can just mean you are independent. The fact you are having a bad patch means you need to work harder (both of you) at your marriage. The other only you can know.
2007-01-06 06:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he hasent been gone long its OK not to miss him. My husband used to be in the Royal Navy if he went away for just a couple of weeks I did not miss him that much, but if he went on a 6 month trip I realy missed him. Its ok to be independant
2007-01-06 06:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just enjoying a break? Depending on how long he is gone. Sometimes absense makes the heart grow fonder. Maybe you just need to spice up your relationship a little bit. Try a romantic dinner when he gets home. When he is home, do you enjoy spending time with him? Are you happy?
2007-01-06 06:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when my wife takes the kids and goes visits relatives. I feel that i can do anything i want to and feel free. I usually end up just vegging around listening to my music rather loud, I love it.
And although i love them, i can't say that i ever miss them.
Every relationship has to have personal time, together time and if you have kids family time.
2007-01-09 23:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by chilihifly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Personally i think if all married couples lived separately the world would be a much happier place, and the divorce rate would be minimal
2007-01-10 05:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by greenbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, enjoy the space and thank your lucky stars your not running around picking up his dirty socks etc and cooking his meals.Every marriage goes through bad patch's see how you feel when he get back, as they say absence make the heart grow fonder.
2007-01-10 04:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself that in a few weeks time when you wake up to find four other pairs of legs in your bed, a rubber ring, an empty bottle of bourbon and a terrible hangover.
2007-01-06 06:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by mizzsquitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you like your own space - look for outside interests when he's back and both enjoy your times together when you're not busy doing something else.
2007-01-06 06:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal. if u care about him , then u obviously also still love him, i dont think it meanes that u dont love him anymore.
2007-01-06 06:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋