I see a lot of questions teens or parents asking why or should they date and most people say they shouldnt. as we are the ones to judge its reality and in control of it ( there are times we are not i admit that) what makes them brand it as "puppylove"?
2007-01-06 06:23:35 · 15 answers · asked by janus 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2007-01-06 07:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Spookytr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dating leads to sex. Sex then leads to pregnancy or an STI. I don't know about you, but I have never seen a 12 year old that could take care of a baby. I also don't get why a 12 year old needs a boyfriend. I went on my first car date at 17. I'm still with the same man today. We have two toddlers together. One of which was conceived 4 months before I turned 18. When I was 12, I wasn't worried about boys. I was more worried about keeping my 4.0 GPA in school. I did it too. I graduated with the same GPA. I know one thing about it. I would never want to go back to being a 12 year old girl...lol.
cuttie94: Some of us had respect for our parents when we were teenagers. When our parents said no, we listened. It's not an issue of not having the opposite sex "like," us. Believe me, I had crushes and a lot of guys had crushes on me. When I got asked out, I said no because I wasn't allowed to date. I don't see why that concept is so hard for kids to understand today.
2007-01-06 14:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Life experience that is the answer. We as parents have seen it too many times. Too many young girls pregnant, unmarried, children with no love, no father. Just take a look at the inner city model. Here we have families that are single parent. Here we have poverty, kids that have no direction. Mothers with four of five children that are by different fathers. Third and fourth generation single parent families with the same story. Mothers that let their 12-15 year olds date, get pregnant and perpetuate the problem even further. Puppy love is a hormone driven "child" love. And we all have been there so we know what the heck we are talking about. And someday, you will too. Listen to your parents. They are not stupid! They have seen the "children" they grew up with screw up their lives, they want better for their children. They also know how young men are. They will say anything to get a girl to submit to sex. And they are too young to understand the consequences of the result. Thus, too many children with no parents, no love, no future. Be smart, be aware, be informed, be safe. I am a male 54 years old. I have a brother that has fathered 4 children with three women, and has raised not a single one of them. I know what I am saying by seeing it first hand.
2007-01-06 14:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
they should be able to date i think its unreal for peple to say that they shouldnt becuse it leads to sex well if the parents were waching there child better mabye u wouldnt have a pregent teen or a son who got the girl pregnet. And so some teens make bad chocies not all want to get in each others pants at 14. most jsut wanta be liked by a guy/ girl that they think is really hott. and for all who couldnt or didnt want to date untill u were 17 maybe the reason for that was becuse u werent liked so dont make other pple suffer by telling them that.
2007-01-06 15:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by mmhhm 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think a lot of it depends on how the dating is taking place. If they're going out with groups of friends, and aren't left unsupervised at each other's homes, I think it's fine. However, I wouldn't leave kids that age alone together. It isn't a matter of trust at all. "Puppy Love" can be pretty strong, and it's easy to make very bad decisions. Dating itself is no problem. Seeing movies, holding hands, cuddling and kissing and whispering sweet nothings.... it's when sex becomes involved that kids get in over their heads. I've seen one too many broken hearts over this, and one too many pregnancies as a result of "accidents". When kids are "in love", they tend to not think clearly.... heck, when adults are in love they don't think clearly either. However, when kids that age are in love they tend to not think of the long term consequences.
2007-01-06 14:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by grasyndru 1 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I think 12/13/14 years olds are TOO YOUNG TO DATE.
I started dating when i was 15, didn't have sex until i was 16,had a baby at age 21, im married to the guy i lost my virginity too. We have been together for 11 years. (i am 27 now)
I was playing with barbie dolls at age 12 & 13
2007-01-06 14:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't see anything wrong with 12-15 year olds dating.
2007-01-06 20:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Hurley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so totally know what you mean!
im 14 an my mom dosent want me dating till im 25, which is really bothersome, becuz shes always like "Oh at my prom... blah blah blah" and im like "i wonder what my prom will be like"
and she said "well it wont be with some boy who is just looking to get into ur pants, and we wont take any chances so ur not dating till ur 25"
its really sad
i mean do they not trust me? they always say they do!
but its really hard for me, becuz there is this guy i like and he might like me (but im not sure) but the thing is, i cant do anything towards the crush thing becuz if anything he might ask me out or sumthing, its not like i can say yes even if i wanted to!
so yeah i think teens should be able to date
12 and up!
too bad for me though lol
-much luv- ashley
2007-01-06 15:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Truth be told. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love between young teenagers is considered puppy love because it rarely turns into a lifetime relationship. At that young age, dating in groups is fine because it teaches you how to develop romantic relationships.
Minors are obliged to follow their parents' rules, and for good reason!
2007-01-06 14:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i say u can have a bf (ie kiss/hug/hold hands at school, sumtimes go out w/ ur friends w/ him in a huge group)
1st yr of high school- double dates
15- dates(1 on 1)
marrige- sex
2007-01-06 15:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋