my boyfriend and my best friend are always hugging and flirting and they are always with each other and when they aren't with each other they are talking about each other constantly!!!i dunno what i should do??
2007-01-06 06:21:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my boyfriend and my best friend are always with each other hugging each other and then when they aren't around each other they talk about each other constantly!!!what should i do????
2007-01-06 06:34:45 · update #1
either dump him or make it a 3some!
2007-01-06 06:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is more suited for her. I think you need a new friend and boyfriend. Friends don't flirt with their real true friend boyfriends. And it sounds like they really like each other if that's all they talk about. No reason for talking just action move on> I'm not saying it want hurt. But in the long run the longer you have two people in your life like these your going to be hurt more often.
2007-01-06 14:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get them both against you, i think you should talk to your best friend. Tell her how you thought it was "Chick's before dick's" (excuse my language...). Have a real deep conversation with her. Unless you have never had a deep conversation with her before, she may not have that kind of respect towards you. Whatever, if she doesn't listen...it's over, you are better without that kind of drama out of your life. And dump your boyfriend for sure... this may sound bitter but you don't want him to dump you and see him with your bestfriend afterwards. This has happened to me a few times. I think you should talk to your friend... find a new guy, then dump him. Finding a new guy doesn't mean having another boyfriend. It means finding some other guy to talk to, and you should find a whole group of friends to confide in and have fun with. Good luck, and don't fret about this. You will meet tons of amazing guys in your life time... don't dwell upon the past.
2007-01-06 14:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ramona S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm that happened to me and yes they were and now they are married with 2 kids and I am no longer friends with either of them. If you have those kind of feelings then most likely it is true, but I think you need to confront both of them at the same time to get an answer and trust me you will know immediately! Sorry!
2007-01-06 14:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by michelle b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u shud sit both of them down and hav a serious talk with them and find out y they act that way around each other. Tell them u dnt appreciate it and then also tell them how u feel abt other things if there r other things bothering u.
2007-01-06 14:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend, then talk to your boyfriend. Dont tell them all you know. Keep some info to yourself and keep investigating. If they are having a thing then your friend is not your friend if she would get into something that would hurt you so much.
2007-01-06 14:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first talk to your boyfriend about it (you don't want to offend your friend). Tell him your worries, and if he says he has been cheating on you, or he likes your friend better, then you guys should break up so you can make room in your heart for people who truly care about you, and he can go off and have a turbulent affair with your friend. If he denies anything, then go to your friend and ask her.
2007-01-06 14:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhh! get rid of him! Why would you want anyone that is not all about you? don't you think that you deserve that. I understand that he is your boyfriend and you must of found something in him but you also have to be wise. He is not in to you if he is in to your best friend. Don't settle for leftovers.
2007-01-06 14:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'd talk to your friend and tell her how you feel...if she's really your friend then she'll back off...make sure you talk to him about all of this too..then if they don't back off of eachother then kick him to the curb and find a new best friend one that isn't so much of a back-stabbr or a boyfriend stealer.
2007-01-06 14:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This calls for you to be straight forward and ask your boyfriend what's going on. If he avoids your question, I'd tell him it's okay if he wants to be with your friend. See how he reacts.
2007-01-06 14:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by ladyravenwing2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your friend before you do anything drastic...........Just ask her about it in the middle of a convo so you can catch her off guard. Thats how I found out alot!!!!!
2007-01-06 15:06:49 · answer #11 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋