friends why my heart ask for love why this fealing make me ruthless? some time i feel loanly with in my buddies why?i know i m not in love but why i feel i need to be in love?why this all happend with me?
2007-01-06 06:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Rajesh M 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You have a personal conflict with yourself. You need to increase your self-love and understanding. Have you heard the saying that to love others you must first love yourself? Try to gain greater personal knowledge of who you are and start paying more attention as to how others need the same things as you do. It sounds like you are not understanding the sensitivies and feelings of others. And you will not be able to do that, until you are your own best friend and have compassion and understanding for yourself. I don't know your personal circumstances like if you had good, caring parents but if you had a not so perfect childhood that doesn't mean all is lost. But you must embark on a search and those who feel the need to be loved are expressing an inner emptiness that you need to fill with knowledge about the human condition in general and you, yourself in particular. Start recognizing that we are all the same below the surface of our exterior appearances. We all need love. We all need caring and understanding. We are all united by this common thread. You will get as you give. Would you want someone to be ruthless to you and treat you without feeling? No, it wouldn't feel good, would it? So do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Translation: the way you want to be treated, treat others in the same way, and you will establish an atmosphere around yourself that will attract goodness into your life. Our experiences and the people we bring into our lives, are the mirror to what we are giving out to our life. If you only find negative, bad people around you, you must be communicating bad attitudes to others, so you will only have bad experiences. It's a simple rule, to get goodness, you must give out goodness. It works! Start by increasing your awareness about what life is really all about. Your personal rewards will be far greater when you reach out with positivity rather than ruthlessness, which will only make you appear mean to others and you will seem like a person who would be very hard to truly love. But know who you are first. Take one step at a time. Come to know you and then you will come to understand others and then the need to be loved and find love, will come about through clear knowing of who would be right for you and who would be wrong for you. The other person from whom you are seeking love from, cannot provide the love for yourself that must come first before you can truly love anyone else. No one else can fill that gap for you. It is part of the learning journey we are all on, to discover the many facets of our amazing beings and those whose paths we cross! Good luck in your search to know and love who you are, so then you can give love and find love one day!
2007-01-06 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u hv any past relation? if so the forget about her now n concentrate on ur wrk n keep urself busy in diff activities .
if not..
then i think ur feeling unnecessry worry. there will be girls around who care for u n may be even love u but cannot express it to u or u may feel similarly 4 someone... (i think ur in love but u dont want 2 accpt the fact ..)
i knw it coz i hv gone through it twice before ..
either be bold enough tell her once n for all without fearing the outcome or
forget it an stop feeling miserable
take care , best of luck...
2007-01-06 14:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by himadri m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as human beings always expect something out of our actions. We crave for love from other humans to boost our ego. If u start looking within and stop looking out side of your self to be a complete human, then this feeling for love from others depletes. but this is kind of a state like NIRVANA and very difficult to achieve. for a start stop expecting anything from your relationships and just start giving love to others and see the difference. Do not expect anything from your actions and you will be peaceful. another solution is to just refuse to get hurt by others actions! all the best, my friend.
2007-01-06 23:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by bhatrax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's human nature. u mustbe a teenager. teenagers usually feel such things. They want to liked by somebody and r soon attracted towards others. Well if u r not even then u would feel like that. Ur feeling lonely because u r too emotional.
2007-01-06 19:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most humans feel a need to love and be loved,,,, and needing to be loved really isnt about giving, its about receiving,,,,, not sure what you mean by ruthless? that should not have a place in love,,,,, and yes we can feel lonely even when surrounded by people,,,,,
2007-01-06 14:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens with everyone dont worry about it, u just need sum1 in ur life whos there 4 u
2007-01-06 23:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by screamorange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the quest of the human soul.
and one can not get it directly.
the only way is keep loving and never ask for it.
then it returns in many folds..
Love
Ravi
2007-01-07 00:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by shekharravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heart had no feelings brain is the organ for all feelings
2007-01-06 21:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋