He doesnt want to get married and i dont want to force but even though I love him I feel used.His Dad told me he was using me so even though I dont want to break up I think I would feel better if I didnt sleep with him anymore.....so do you think he will break up with me or can we date without sex or what?I feel like he will think Im being manipulative but I just dont feel good about being used.
2007-01-06 06:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your mad at him I'd refrain from having sex when my boyfriend pisses me off I don't give him any for sometimes a month but it's hard on me too I have to admit but I don't give in even when we're both so frustrated but what happens is you'll argue and things get better I don't know if that'll help you but if I want my way I get it trust me he hates when I do that.
2007-01-06 06:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you are being manipulative, so what.
Six years is long enough to know what the future will contain.
If you have quit having sex , might as well get it over with and move on.
Using sex as a tool for change is despicable.
2007-01-06 07:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling ,but my ex said we would get married after 5 years of dating and then he changed his mind.they just wants to enjoy the free sex with no commitment,when i withheld it ,he went back to an old hootchic girlfriend ,and that's why hes my ex.
2007-01-06 06:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes got something on the side sorry thats how it seems, either that or hes not as inlove with u as u r him
2007-01-06 06:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex anymore stop.
If he'll break up with you because of that he wasn't worth your time anyway.
2007-01-06 06:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you sleep wiyh someone it is hard to just be friends. It can be done but you better just move on.
2007-01-06 06:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he will break up with you , if you dont let him make sweet , sweet , love to you
2007-01-06 06:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and have sex with his father.
2007-01-06 06:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh grow up ... put up or shut up
dr bad
ps.. games solve nothing
2007-01-06 06:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey butterfly........... as your name suggest.... go and find some one else who really cares for you.......... because true love is difficult to find.
2007-01-06 06:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by mausamifrench 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋