Im in 8th grade this year i have a HUGE crush on a guy. He likes my best friend. She couldn't care less about him but she doesnt want to tell him. he is my best guy friend and every girl in my grade likes him. he has no clue. when i sit with him at lunch i always start blushing. i think he knows i like him but should i flat out tell him or just let things go and see the turnout. I dont want to ruin our friendship. Ive had to many moments with him that i tresure. he is sweet and ok, HOT! This is bothering some one plz help. p.s. no stupid anwsers
2007-01-06 06:03:50 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should hang out some more until he asks ''do you like me''
But then if you answer yes it changes the way he hangs out with you and thinks about you wait until he likes you! Or tell your friend you like him and you would like her to give you guys a chance
2007-01-06 06:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it could be awkward with him liking your best friend and not you. Even though she may not be interested in him it could get ugly between the two of you once his attention goes from her to you. So, decide is your friendship the most important or a maybe, possible, relationship with this guy who may go out with you as his second choice.
2007-01-06 14:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you could stay friends for now if u dont wanna ruin your friendship, but if you never tell him the truth you never know what will happen. I wud ask him out. See if he likes you back
2007-01-06 14:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by ver ver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you think is the best thing to do. you don't want to ruin your friendship, but if you never tell him, it could ruin a possible relationship! do what you think will really help you. also, does your friend know? she might have some influence since he likes her.
2007-01-06 14:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by HansonFan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also am in 8th grade and i had a simaler problem, i ended up just telling him and it turned out he liked me too and we were dateing but when i asked for advice i was told if you don't let him know then he would be taken so i got up the courege and every thing turned out fine.
2007-01-06 14:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to tell him just let him figure it out on his own,watch the way you dress and try and smile at him more often, sit across him and look him straight in the eye, i think he'll figure it out talk to him and ask him if he'd like to go with you someahere or somethin
2007-01-06 14:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by cuffmugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for a alone minute or two with him. then just um, i have sumthing kinda personal to tell. wait til he's reacts then tell him. wait for his reaction though dont just walk away. and remember look at him in the eyes when u tell him, so that it doesnt seem like a dare.
2007-01-06 14:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Turtle~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would keep the friendship as he knows you know that he likes your friend and he wouldnt do that to you if he knew you fansied him and him vise versa. enjoy an amazing friendship and you never know what the future holds but dont play second best to your friend just because she turns him down
2007-01-06 14:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should like totally take a risk and tell him. Try and do it in like a non-threatening way, ya'know? I mean like don't tell him that you want to spend eternity together or something... Or, like ask him if he wants to hang our together sometime. Anyway, just Do IT!
2007-01-06 14:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to see how things turnout because at the same time you two are close friends
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2007-01-06 14:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by C.JAY* jamaican princess* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋