with both women and men for 10 months now.Alright,she's trying to figure out her sexual orientation.What am I supposed to do?I think she's not fully appreciative of just how important this relationship is
2007-01-06 05:55:48 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm a lesbian
2007-01-06 05:59:12 · update #1
she's my girlfriend,yes
2007-01-06 06:00:33 · update #2
i think that if you are in a relationship with someone you shouldn't be shagging around with men or women, experimenting or not. I think you should let her know how it makes you feel and if shes not willing to stop then maybe you'll be better off finding someone who wants to be with YOU and only YOU.
Good luck anyway, hope things work out.
2007-01-06 07:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean you are a woman in a relationship with another woman?
It sounds like the relationship isn't as important to her as it is to you. It is easy to go and experiment when you have someone who is a bit more stable than yourself. It is convenient for her and possibly she is too young to realise this. The best thing for her to do is to experiment on her own (unless, of course, you're cool with her doing it) and let you go because what you each want does not match the other.
For everyday that you try to "fix" her, that is a day that you aren't available to meet someone who wants to share your life and have a relationship that is good for you and her.
good luck.
2007-01-06 14:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some girls still like men and women, i take it you dont feel that way and feel cheated by this girl, if she felt the same way you do then i dont think she would be doing this to you.
You just might have to move on and find someone that just wants you.
2007-01-06 14:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by spaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your being used for some kind of emotional support. Break off the relationship, stay freinds with her because it sounds like thats what she needs then find youself a new girl.
2007-01-06 14:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is a funny thing sometime it takes awhile for someone to figure out what they want out of life. I'm bi and I'm still trying but I do like it both ways. Sometime it's hard ......
2007-01-06 14:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord is that you and her on your 360 page? A right pair of minx's.
If she isnt appreciative of how important the relationship is then the relationship obviously isnt that important to her.
2007-01-06 14:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then talk to her about it if it's bothering you. Communication and honesty are key parts of making a relationship work.
2007-01-06 22:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets say she is bi. if she gets involved with a person of one sex. well that is the only erson she should be s.hagging. un less you are both v young then it sounds like she is not ready for a relationship. either way talking is needed.
ps your both georgous
2007-01-06 14:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sounds to me like she's not ready to commit..and is just keeping you on a leash.....maybe she needs to grow up and make a choice and either commit or let you go...sorry,I don't think you wanted that answer.
2007-01-06 15:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're in a relationship, 10 months is MORE than enough. Ask her to stop
2007-01-06 13:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋