i just lost about half my friends. i have NO CLUE what to do can anyone just give me a word of advice? thanks. well my whole grade had this HUGE fight a few days ago all because of me. i was talking to my best friend online. she asked why i hadnt been hanging out with our group as much lately and so, since i tell her everything, i said that sometimes i feel uncomfortable when they make white jokes. they say stuff like "i hate whites!! get rid of all them white b!tches in the world and it will be better" well none of them are white except me. so i tell her it made me uncomfortable so its hard to stay in a conversation like tht. so she tells every1 i think they are all racist which i didnt say or even hint at. i just said it made me uncomfortable. not a bunch of people i thought were my great friends were talking about me all day and insulting me and saying how much they hated me. i have no clue wut the problem is but its all about me. now the whole grade is fighting and I NEED HELP
2007-01-06 05:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by yourLoverr<33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok so the friend who did this ALSO said she would nvr repeat anything i said to her to anyone no matter what but she showed our conversation to like 10 ppl. then she says shes dissapointed in me. trust me i got rid of most of those friends but now i have like none. this is the worst situation i have ever been in
2007-01-06 05:54:11 · update #1
I'm sorry but your friend sounded like an complete a**------how stupid can she possibly be to get mad at you because you are getting uncomfortable about the white jokes.
Did you ever tell your friends jokes concerning their race? If so how did they react.
She is a liar and a dumba**
YOU DID NOT START THAT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!
Your racist friend did.
2007-01-06 06:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but if you are white and they are talking that trash then yes you are going to feel uncomfortable. they would feel the same way if the situation was reversed. its sounds like a typical teen problem, obviously none of you have grown enough to know that its not the color of a person's skin that makes them who they are.
and none of you seem to know anything about loyalty to a Friend or how to be a true friend. it sounds though like you are not the racist but the others in your class. find some other people who have the same ideas and interests that you have to become friends with.
2007-01-06 06:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it would be hard to just forget about it...Its deffinetly easier said than done because i had a firned that i felt unconftorable with because of somethings.and u just wanna drop her but u cant..i understand what ur going thorught in the sense of friends...but when u think about it..if they're saying **** about u and saying that u think their racist than maybe their not very good friends to begin with...i think maybe it would be easier if you had a better group of friends who understand what ur going through and where your coming from..but like i said..i know that its easier said than done..so i wish u luck with what ever way you chose to do it
2007-01-06 05:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by i_luv_grammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront this head on. tell them all to their face why you are uncomfortable. besides..they are all saying you are racist, but they are the ones that truely are because they seem to have something against white ppl. point that fact out to them and watch them stutter. stand your ground, you've nothing to apologize for, and have done nothing wrong.
2007-01-06 05:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you call those friends? if they say that about whites and you are white and their friend, throw them in the trash. they aren't trustworthy either. and they ARE raciest(even though you didn't hint it, they are). i got ur back. just totally tell the teacher, or parents, TOTALLY parents, mebbe ur mom talk to theirs or dads, whtvr....but don't hang out w/them.
2007-01-06 06:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋