Here's the low down: I just started college this year. The first quarter was increadibly rough for me. Me and my girlfriend split (for now) and I'm an very shy/quiet person. The reason I want to move to a different dorm is simpily because of my roommate. While I was with my girlfriend he was a complete *** (this was back last year in highschool). This guy wouldn't even try to be friends with her and made her cry a number of times. This hurt her many times and now since i made the retarded decision to room with him I think it may have had something to do with our breakup. He's also demeaning some of the time. He says crap to me like: you have no friends etc.... BUT that's only happened only a few times. I can honestly say he's "alright" to live with but just the fact that he treated me and my girl the way he did makes me want to move out and make my own friends. I feel like this is high school 2.0. What should I do??
2007-01-06 05:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm scarred to move out because:
1) I'm very shy...and scarred to start over socially in new surroundings
2) I've already made a few aquaintances here at my current dorm
3)What if I'm lonely over at this new dorm?
4)What if my room mate is a dick?
I honesty feel like moving out is the right thing to do. It's just principal. He treated me and my girl like **** for so long and...sorta got away with it. Now I've broken up with her and I feel like in a big way it's because of him. I'm pretty confused as of what to do and what's best for me. I need to branch out and make my own friends and maybe a new dorm isn't such a bad idea??? Someone help me!
2007-01-06 05:48:17 · update #1
I say you move out. It seems like even if you and your girl are broken up he's going to keep acting in that manner. Whether he had anything to do with you breaking up with your girl, i dont know but if you are going to get back together it wouldnt be a good idea to be living with him. If he's going to start yelling at her or making her cry, go elsewhere. You can move to another dorm and you can still hang out with the people you've met at your current dorm. Dont be afraid of something new, not all future roomates are going to be A**holes, remember when you have a roomate, you're not expected to be best friends. You two are jsut living in the same place.
2007-01-06 05:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....u shouldnt have let him get away with it n da first place or he wouldnt have done it again and againBut i think u should move out cuz u dont need a roomate like dat. When and if u do move out then jus start off as friends with ur new roomate and you'll make more friends after that even though u r a shy person! And i think u should try tu get ur gurl back!
2007-01-06 14:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go start anew... Try to fix your relationship with you "ex," if you really want it and if she reallly want it. By moving out, you are giving your so-called ex-relationship another chance.
College is all about experience. So you started off with a friend that you thought was a friend only to find out he's a disrespectful jerk. There's many more of those everywhere. Back to the point. Experience all you can in College. Those that stick with you and remember you through thick and thin are your true friends.
2007-01-06 13:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by goodtimes2x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and move. College is partly about the experience of meeting new people. It is ok that you are shy, many people are. Just keep plugging away at it. Good luck.
2007-01-06 13:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that is your only choice right now.i wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-01-06 13:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋