Should I tell my parents and sister that I like to wear girls clothing. I've worn my sisters while it fit then I started wearing my mothers. Now I'm starting to go and buy my own female undergarments I want to tell them but I am not sure if I should. And if i should How can i tell them.
2007-01-06 05:45:01 · 13 answers · asked by John W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm not gay
2007-01-06 05:51:27 · update #1
There seem to be a lot of respondees thinking you're gay. Don'y listen to them...you would know if you were. Just because you like to dress up in girls clothes doesn't make you gay (Eddie Izzard people!!!). Finding guys attractive makes you gay...nothing else.
Your question is so difficult to answer without all of the information. Are you close to your sister...can she keep the secret, even when you argue or upset her? If so I would start here. She might be able to help you make sense of everything. She might even support you and help you dress! Telling your parents might be very difficult, but if you have issues with your gender, you should confront them somehow. Do you have any close female friends that you can trust not to spill the beans? I have a male friend who confided in me and he TOTALLY wasn't gay!!
Whatever you decide, good luck!
2007-01-07 09:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you're gay!!!!! Is your parents open minded people in all the years you have known them? What make you think they will be open minded the minute you tell them. Do you think, infact I think your sister and mother would have a fit if you tell them that you were wearing their undergarments. First of all for invading their privacy and second the mere fact that you have been wearing them.
So if you know that your parents are the type that can dig hearing, or doesn't have any negativity going on about gay people? You can tell them.
Better yet why not pose the question over dinner with your family how they feel about gays. Or relate to them how you read on the net about boys wearing female undergarments and tell them you think it is disgusting just to see their reaction and take the suspicion off of you. Reverse psychology my Friend. Tell me how it goes.
Good Luck.
2007-01-06 14:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by ysandia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you who you are or what you are or you need help or go to Church that would be wrong of me but dont ever take these peoples advice on serious maters that you need to go at alone dont hate your self or others because some people only have one way of seeing they dont know if it right or wrong or what happen when we die only one who knows is God.Maybe he is not as unforgiving as people make him out to be I dont know if you believe i God dont lose your faith it you realize you are gay because people think they know so much and are so holy but every one on earth has good and bad its just some more bad than good in others.If you want to tell your parents or not I'm all for it just make sure its what you want! Good Luck it want be a easy decision for you. remember who took the most time to help you out and not just to get 10 points
2007-01-07 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sharika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your parents know, they might not understand at first but you are their child. They will have to eventually understand and try to help you if you want to be helped. Make sure you have answers to their questiong. So if that means thinking about possible questions they might ask, then do it. Just sit them down and have a talk with them. if your sister is younger then dont let her know, let you parents take care of that. But if shes older and you trust her and know she'll be accepting, let her know and then speak to your parents. That way you have someone to support you.
Good Luck
2007-01-06 14:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Blood&Wine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are older I would suggest you try and go to a counselor and see if you can figure out what happened in your early days that makes you want to do something like this.
It's not a horrible thing to do but I don't think it serves any purpose except to be self-destructive.
Talk to a professional...maybe they will help you stop and you won't have to tell anyone.
God Bless!
2007-01-06 13:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still live at home?
Better to be up front then get caught in the act.
how to tell them....That's something you'll have to figure out....
knowing their schedules and moods......How old is your sister....if she is very young...let your parents decide on whether or not to tell her.
best wishes
2007-01-06 13:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how understanding you think your parents might be. if you live with them and think they might freak out, you might want to hold that information in till you are on your own and they can't do anything about it. if it seems like it wouldn't be a big deal then maybe share, but even if you do, expect weirdness and akwardness.
don't get caught.
2007-01-06 13:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by tony b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common, what are you waiting for. Just go and tell them, if you trust them. If you have any close friend, cousin, sis or bro who can understand you, you can probably talk with them. But you should communicate all your problems with your close ones.
2007-01-06 13:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tell them, but don't expect them to be happy about it. You'll want to think about why you like it because they're going to have some questions for you.
2007-01-06 13:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by mommy333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you gay? If you are, then you should tell your parents that you're gay. Better to hear it from you than anyone else. You will live better knowing you did.
2007-01-06 13:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋