I am currently at a college where i do not want to attend. THe area is in the middle of no where and theres many of junkies as you can say.. I have told my mom every reason that i didnt like the school..Yet one reason is that ive been having sex and people have started to start many rumors and people are very trifling down there. I didnt want to go to the school in the first place. It was my only option for the time. I dont really want to be here...and im not comfortable of telling her my other reasons for leaving
2007-01-06 05:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop having sex and concentrate on your studies, that alone should keep you busy enough. count yourself lucky you can go on with your studies some people would be glad for the opportunity that you have and all you can do is complain.
grow up.
2007-01-06 06:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't completely ready to start college so I worked at a job for a year before going to college. You should tell your mom that you feel like college life is causing you to make some poor moral decisions and you seem to only see negative characters around you. Tell her you just don't feel like being there is beneficial and is wasting money at this point in your life.
Is there another option you'd like to pursue? Discuss this with your mom. Your mom is only trying to protect your future by insisting you go to and stay in college. But I feel if you explain the surroundings and your perceptions of those surroundings she'll understand and help you find an alternative that both of you will be comfortable with.
Moms are pretty good to talk over problems with. Don't be afraid of disappointing her, your her kid, she'll love you no matter what. Just be honest with her.
2007-01-06 13:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by briardan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that since you are in college you are over the age of 18? You are an adult and with that comes not only the right but the so called ability to make your own choices. You have obviously exercised that right in one department (sex) so what I am saying here is it is up to you. Stay or go, if you want to remain at school do so if not leave. As far as telling your mom, the simple truth will do.
L.
2007-01-06 13:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by tink3610 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try telling her the other reasons then...that the place you live is in the middle of nowhere and there aren't very safe people around. Your mom loves you, and she will understand that; especially if YOU say that you don't think it it safe, she won't either. Also let her know how you feel about school all in all. Tell her that you don't really know what you want to do and you will need some time to think. Moms really know what is going on even if we, as their kids, don't let them in too easily...
2007-01-06 14:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pravda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mother you need to transfer to another school for your major. you could transfer closer to home if needed. tell her also that the junkies make you uncomfortable. what you need to realize is that you are actually embarrassed about your behavior and where ever you go will be if you keep up this way of life. you could move to a new apartment, get new friends, and grin and bear the mistakes you have made. how long until you graduate? One year? stick it out get your diploma and get on with serious life.
2007-01-06 13:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of growing up is doing something that in the end will be good for you.
If you run away from this what have you learned?
Tell you mother as much as possible about your situation because you may be surprised at what a valuable support system she can be.
Try to stick it out at least until the end of this year.....good luck.
2007-01-06 13:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her how uncomfortable you are going to collage there. She should understand. Moms do understand more then a lot of people think. If she still doesn't understand, just come out and tell her what you have been doing. If she loves you, she will support you!
2007-01-06 13:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself into a bad rep too along with a bad bunch of druggies. Talk to mom and I truly believe she will understand that this is not a good thing for you. If you continue to stay it will affect your grades, life, relationships and most of all your inner self. Please get real with mom.
2007-01-06 13:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Say, people are spreading rumors that aren't true and i want to leave.
2007-01-06 13:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anastasia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you have sex with people you had no intention of having a long-term relationship? That is sooo sick! You deserve to be where you are!
2007-01-06 13:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋