Blonde woman interested in your man?

Question

Does a big chested, very good looking, long haired blonde woman make wives and girlfriends feel uncomfortable,scared and or threatened when they show interest in your man?

This blonde woman is not interested in just any man. She is just very attractive and interested in your man. She is not seeing anyone right now. She is totally available for him.

Answer 1

depends on the health and stability of the relationship.
personally i would be happy because he could enjoy the
attention and feel attractive. but i know he's not going
anywhere. if a relationship is rocky or unstable then of
course she could threaten it. but the problem is not the
blonde, it is the bad relationship that exists before she
shows interest.

Answer 2

Most men would find a blonde with long hair and big breasts attractive.

Any woman with a husband of boyfriend who thinks that way would feel threatened.to some degree.

But then not all men think the same way as most men. Some think out of the box. There are plenty of men who have tumbled to the fact that the women who enjoy and are likely to be best in the physical side of a relationship are those who have high testosterone levels and are likely to be flat-chested and hairy to the point of having signficant moustache growth. Any woman who knows that he husband or bf thinks along these lines will not feel at all threatened by a busty blonde.

Answer 3

I would say that this is a definate yes. Women are by nature a jealous and insecure lot. However, I say for the record, likewise, we men can be and are that very same way.

I believe that we all have a part of us that gets phobic and schizo when we see something, that, we perceive as a threat. Whether this is justified or unjustified this is a basic human character.

I know that jealousy is healthy, but only at the level of preservation, and not in the sense that leads to violence and the being treated as property mentality. Bottome line is respect.

Strong relationships are those that have assured each other that there is no threat and that each are totally committed to each other.

In life we can be found to take those that are the closest for granted. We say things that are harsher, we judge less compassionately, we feel that we can push the level of intensity without parameters or sometimes without a care for emotions and hurtful words. Then expect to find a warmth and an overlooking of such offenses, expecting a peace, solace and security, in the offended other, after all is said and done. This is more so true than not. This is moreso and unspoken illogical assumption and it is damaging, and definately immature, and not an attribute that builds faith, trust, hope, and strength and desire in the other spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend.

That type of behaviour should become a part of a person's past. We must go above and beyond, if anywhere, to the one that is the closest to us, reassuring, building, complimenting, romancing, but above all LOVING them. By doing such, this reduces, then eliminates the natural insecurity inside of each one of us.

Something happened to me when I listened to, and it sank in, o JC Mellencamp tune..." Forget all about that macho *&^%, (expletive:commonly referred to as crap), and learn how to play guitar....Play Guitar..."

Now, to answer your question....YES! Especially when interest is shown. Unless, there is a deeper truth, and a strength by which the relationship is founded upon.

Answer 4

I am a blond, but not a very big chest, because I'm so tall, looks are on the inside. And, I have no interest in other women's men, so we are not whores who get with anyone, and contrary to popular belief we are not all stupid.

Answer 5

You know I'll never understand why women hate the "other woman"... The only thing you should be worried about is how faithful your husband is to you. Keep things in perspective, obviously she sees something in him that's valuable, but what you should pay attention to is how he reacts to her.

Oh and if that doesn't work, kick her rear end...

Answer 6

my man is hot, and a lot of women are interested in him. But I'm confident they can't hold a candle to me

Answer 7

If i had someone that i really cared about and found her trying to mess around in my relationship i wonder just how safe she would feel!

Answer 8

umm yess...its not that we dont trust our men but i think all girls automatically feel like that its part of our nature ..but the difference is wether you act on it and act like a jealous freak or just tell your self to stop being silly ...

Answer 9

Well yeah I suppose it would. I love my boyfriend and I do trust him but that would make me nervous.

Answer 10

not really. if my man wanted a blonde, he wouldn't be with me.