ok so i am gay for 6-7 years and i really like these girls. one is in my class and she is really preatty and she dresses really nice and she talks ...and she walks and what ever ...i started liking her in 9th grade after one week of school and now i really love her but i meat this summer a girl that made me feel horny.... she was ok but after she touched me i felt something for her and i started liking her and now i really love her. she is not like the other one she is more like me...they are not gay!!! and they don't know that i am gay. if i have to tell them which one should it be? the one in my class which i see most of the time or the other one who has this thing that makes me think that she is gay?with the one from my class i don't talk about every thing, ...i don't even exist for her and we don't talk that much..if she needs a pen she asks for it and that is all but with the other one is different cuz we talk when we meat.. i can't make my mind cuz i love them both so much...
2007-01-06 05:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if they dont even know that ur a lesbian, then how are they suppose to even a little interested in liking you as a significant other.
btw. i think its better if you choose the summer gal that makes you hot. reason 1. if she isnt gay. you dont see her daily so it wont be all that wierd. 2. seeing as how ur not out to the world yet, i think its best that you experiment with your sexuality first. 3. if you chose the classmate, and shes not gay, and she doesnt even see you as a friend, she will destroy you. she will make fun of you behind your back and spread rumors just because thats how some girls are.
2007-01-06 05:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermm.. Have you approch our classmate, try to be friends? You will not know if you haven't even tried. Maybe she's the right one, who knows? I also once had this experience but because I didn't at least try I lost them.. I think the hard problem is confessing to be a G or an L =/
Sorry I'm not much help.. Cliche but all answers can actually be found inside you.
2007-01-06 13:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by skintouch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, I think you needs to learn the difference between lust and love. In my opinion you can't be in love with someone you barely talk to, and the other seems to be a sexual attraction and not love, lust is a very powerful feeling and often times people mistaken it for love.
2007-01-06 13:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you already know which one of the two you should talk to.
Not the one in your class
Good luck on you,i think you found a match.
Go for it.
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-06 13:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you actually know and speak with of course.
2007-01-06 22:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your question with "want to" instead of should. See if that helps.
2007-01-06 13:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can be honest with yourself, you can be honest with anybody!
2007-01-06 13:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats not love. find a boyfriend!
2007-01-06 13:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by cooter_brown872 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
WHY DONT YOU JUST LIKE GUYS LIKE NORMAL GIRLS DO!
2007-01-06 13:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by devo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋