2007-01-06 05:00:40 · 14 answers · asked by really now! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The key ingredients are enthusiam, a willingness to experiment, and humor. Then you can try things enthusiastically and laugh if they don't work out the way you expected.
There are plenty of articles on the web about sex. You can find them with google.
Also, the more you enjoy it, the more you'll want it. So, make sure you know what pleases you. And ask for it. If you don't know, google "female masturbation techniques", and practice them. Once you learn how to please yourself, you can explain it to him.
2007-01-06 05:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that to be a better wife in the bedroom is to be a better woman out of it.
Men have fragile egos. What they really need in their own homes is shelter from the world.
Help him to feel that his home is his haven and that you are there for him.
Help him to feel he is a good provider, a good friend, a good lover, a good man. Tell him how appreciated he is and show him by providing him with those things that are important to him. Those are things only he can tell you but most men want good food, a comfortable home and great sex.
If you are looking for technique, there are many good, tasteful films on lovemaking and a gazillion websites to help you with that but I really think that an attitude of appreciation and adoration is what he needs from you.
2007-01-06 05:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, first realize that sex is as much a mental thing as a physical thing. Try to show your husband that you really do desire him sexually, but also desire and appreciate him for the man he is in total. It will mean a lot to him and it might give you more things to like about him then you now see. Infact, if you do so, it just might make sex for you as well as he better, come to think of it.
Now, as far as specifics, that is something that one cant really say without knowing him and what he likes and so forth. I would have to say that you could start by finding out what he likes and why that is. Some people have fantasies about one thing, while that might be a turn off or mean nothing to someone else. You have to learn what he likes or what stirs him and why it does. Also realize that his fantasy doesnt have to make sense to you or excite you at the outset. Now I am not talking about threesomes or kids or animals, so dont get wrong here. LOL. I mean, if he has a fantasy about having you in your office or in the garage, it doesnt have to make sense to you. It might not even make sense to him, it just turns him on all the same.
Next, make sure that you really do try to do what he likes and that you actually want to please him. You can tell if someone is doing something to simply shut you up, for you can find that their heart isnt in it. If you are going to do something he likes or wishes, make a real effort, not just something that will shut him up, for he will be able to tell. He might appreciate it, but he might not either.
An example would be, if he has something he likes to see you in, make sure you wear it all. (Example: say a suit and some cute stuff under it turns him on.) Dont play games like, I couldnt find this or that piece, or I dont know where I put this item. Stuff like that after once or twice says you dont really care, you are just making motions to pacify. Think of it this way, if you are going to an event and he wears a suit and old dirty sneakers, you probably would be upset or think that the event didnt mean enough for him to even try to look good for YOU or himself. If he pulls this stunt more then once, you would feel that he could not care less about how you feel or how he appears to you. Same thing applies in trying to please your mate. Hope all that made sense.
Lastly, let your husband please you. If he cares about you, he has a lot of his emotions and pride wrapped up in doing so. He has a need to please you, so he needs to know if he is and how to best do so. That information as to if he is and how to do so can only come from you being honest with him.
2007-01-06 05:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do Love your husband, then give him all you got, anytime, anyway,or anything. You start the foreplay first and give him a fine round in the bed. If your watching TV start by looking at him flirting with him in the sexiest outfit you can find. When you have sex moan and even almost scream and just make him feel you can't take anymore if feels so good. Tell him how fantastic he is in bed . How Lucky you are to have a man that is great and fine in the sack. When you make love work your body hard, be completely exhausted when you stop. Just give all the love you can, touch all over him just work that body of yours anyway that feel satisfies him. Tell him man what a fine man I found me when I found you, you can turn me on by just walking in the room, WOW, I can't hardly stand it till I get you in the bed.
2007-01-06 05:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men need an all rounder woman; One who would be there for them in everyway and at everytime. It is good that you want to be a better wife to him in this regard. It is very necessary!!! But, do not let this override other functionalities required from you. Relationships are about communication. Ask him what he wants. He will tell you. Take it from there!
2007-01-06 05:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by debozki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have an open mind in bed. Both of you need to work if you want to make sex better. Be adventurous and try new things.
2007-01-06 05:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Zilf Bambi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what kinds of things sparks his interest. And then you need to take a step back and take an honest look at yourself.
2007-01-06 05:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by ezpaced 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get to learn what kind of things your husband likes. What brings him pleasure (once it is not degrading to you) then do it to please him and show him how you love him in this area of your relationship.
2007-01-06 05:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
BEcome his slut in the bedroom. Do anything he would like>
2007-01-06 07:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I offer a 30-day course. Hands on training. $75 an hour. Holla.
2007-01-06 05:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋