2007-01-06 04:59:28 · 27 answers · asked by Patti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some are in photo albums and some are on the computer. Some are of our next door neighbor that he had a 3 month fling with 2 years before I came along.
2007-01-06 07:14:59 · update #1
Most definitely. I can't believe that he is that rude and insensitive to your feelings. You should be the only women he wants to look at. If he needs a hint, and most men are thick headed, have a friend take some nice photo's of you and give them to him. And tell the lunk head that they are replace the pictures he will be throwing out. Did you get a 2x4 as a wedding gift by any chance? Sometimes, us menfolk need an our common sense button reset or an attitude readjusted.
2007-01-06 05:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you feel it's dis-respectful then definately he should
get rid of them. Now that he is married why does he need
pictures of his old flings. Husbands that are TOTALLY
committed to their wives should know what to do and not
to do no matter how minor it is. If a husband really and
truly love their wife then she would be priority one in his
life and anyone else he may have been with in the past
should uninstalled.
2007-01-07 15:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... This will not be a big deal to you in a few years. Trust me. I have been married for 10 years. I have pic's of old bf's and he has pic's of gf's. They are put away in old photo albums with other pic's from our past. Getting rid of a pic doesnt make an ex go away. He had a life b4 you, as did u b4 him.
If he wants the pic's out for all to see... well, then u have a problem.
2007-01-06 13:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No,
and it's ridiculous for you to expect him to.
His life before you, was his life and had nothing to do with you.
Those pictures are part of his memories and you have no right whatsoever to even think of interfering with those.
Stop being so insecure. If you have respect for and love your man you might think about being a bit more mature on this subject. He is married to you now!!!
Unless you want to become just another picture from his past, you might want to focus on the fact that you both had lives before you got together and pictures are nothing more than proof of that life. History...we all have it. There is nothing wrong with him keeping the photographs or anything else that may have come from a previous relationship.
If you love him for the right reasons you'll understand that his past is what helped him develop into the man you love today and you should never insist that he get rid of any part of whom he is.
2007-01-06 13:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he needs some memory of her. if u had a old boyfriend that was the best boyfriend ever and u didnt want to forget him but u moved on im sure u would want to have some memory of that wonderful boyfriend. just ask him to keep the picture out of sight and tell him to not talk about her because u and him are starting a new life together without her in the picture.
2007-01-06 13:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by princess_deja_boyd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pictures of her? Or pictures of the two of them on that really cool trip they went on. You can ask him to throw away a former love. But you can't really ask him to throw away years of his life or to pretend that those years were not good just because you weren't there. Now it's your turn to go to the cool places, attend the fun parties, and be in the pictures. Enjoy that and don't fret about what came before.
2007-01-06 13:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really,i have my house memories with my husband and between photo albums there are pictures with his exgirlfriends:))
It is not something bad,he chose you so there is no way he is going to go to another one if he loves you.And sometimes haveing to look at his past is funny,gives you a new subject to talk about:)
Sorry about my spelling mistakes:)
2007-01-06 13:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by EmyAshna 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and No.
Yes, because you are married and it should be all about you and him. Also, if he keeps it in his wallet, he should get rid of it.
No, because he loved this woman at one point. Especially if they dated for a long time. She meant alot to him.
My girlfriend still has pictures of her ex (in a shoebox with other pictures-it's not like she has one framed or in her purse or something) and it doesn't really bother me. They were together for 3 years, we've been together for 2, so I know how close they must have been and how much they loved each other.
2007-01-06 13:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kyle H 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He should at least put them away in the attic, garage or closet.
This woman was a part of his life...just seal them up at put them away, kindly. Try not to make a big deal out of this in your brand, new marriage...
2007-01-06 13:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by weebleswobble 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most certainly he should get rid of them out of respect for you. Demand that he does.
By him keeping pictures of his old girlfriend is telling you that he still has some emotional ties to her, which should be stopped and dealt with right away. All the best to you!!
2007-01-06 13:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋