Ok, I am 21 years old and living in South Korea (school). I'll come back to the states in a year. Anyways I am gay and have gotten my heart broken twice. But anyways I just met this amazing guy who requested to be my friend on myspace. We live in the same town and he is american as well. Well he hasent say anything about him being gay and i havent say anything about me. But he most of his friends are gay on myspace (thou it may mean anything). But he met me trhough one of his friends up in seoul that has myspace and i even posted a "SEXY" add on this guys myspace. So if the guy i like read it then he would suspect. We have had couple dinner together and watch movies together at my place...we were chatting on yahoo messenger one day and he called me "Cutie pie" But he havent make any moves yet and I'm kind of scare to do one 'cause if hes not gay i dont want to lose him as a friend.
Please what should I do?
Is he gay?
2007-01-06 04:31:43 · 10 answers · asked by evanesheaven1985 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, next time you are talking, or chatting or whatever else, and he makes a comment like cutiepie, you should ask outright whether he is gay or not. Those type of comments are openings to conversations as to who/what you are and what you want in this friendship. Dont be afraid to ask, it really is better than not knowing, and having it bug you all the time.
2007-01-06 04:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by moonshadow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you have already met him, it's worth a shot. Tell him that you're very nervous asking the question and would never want to offend him. He sounds like a nice guy though :) And it sounds like he thinks you're cute, which is very indicative that he may be gay.
Hopefully everything will work out well.
2007-01-06 05:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make it really easy on yourself and just ask him. If you tell him you are gay and he doesn't want to be your friend (which is why I think you haven't told him, maybe you are scared) then you don't need him as a friend.
2007-01-06 04:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Robbie. The "cutie pie" thing strikes me as blatantly flirtatious. If he's not gay, then he's at least bi.
2007-01-06 05:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He calls you cutie pie?
Well would have had action within a minute.
A guy who says that to another guy is as gay as they come.
Grab it while it is still hot.
greetings:Rob.
Go for it.
2007-01-06 04:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he called you cutie pie. then hes gay. no guy will ever call a guy cutie pie. (straight guys anyways). so go for it.
2007-01-06 04:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if he is gay or not, but it sounds like it to me.
i think you should try for more social encounters with this guy...invite him for dinner, or to watch movies, or whatever you two might like to do...if you spend enough time with him, and he is gay and attracted to you, things will take care of themselves...
2007-01-06 04:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by waterlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) ask him and hope he is
2) wait till he asks you
you have two choices! It sucks I know but it works
2007-01-06 04:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask!
2007-01-06 15:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is
2007-01-06 04:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by joey7638 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋