Show you have self esteem:the most important part of a person.
Beauty is inside you,not the wrapping.
You are attractive if you know how to participate in a conversation,without sounding empty headed.
Interact,join in,be yourself
Never pretend to be something that you are not.
If you can do all the above:come knocking:cause you sound attractive to me..
Greetings Rob.
If you really need help, Use my messenger:but not for rubbish.
Have no time for that..
2007-01-06 03:59:00
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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1. Be civil
2. Accept rejections with smile and self confidence.
3. Avoid looking desperate
4. Treat others with dignity even the ones you don't like or are not attrected to
5. Dress appropriately. Expecting people to respect u while u r wearing inappropirate dress is delusional. It shows your desperation for respect and looking desperate is unattractive.
6. Get educated
7. Show that u can control yourself over bad impulsive behaviours (cussing, badmouthing others, craving attention such as talking out loud, bullying, and other negative behaviours)
8. Walk straight and don't slouch
9. Avoid things that can control yourself (drugs, alcohol, nicotine, etc).
10. Stay out of troubles
We can certainly add some more to this :^)
Cheers
2007-01-06 12:05:47
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answer #2
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answered by nothingcomparestome 1
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three ways...
1) look healthier, meaning in shape, clean and groomed.
2) look fashionable, let the clothes, watch, belt and shoes make the man...be in style.
3) look rich, the wealthy look gives the impression of hard working, intellegent and industrious which translates into a good provider for the family and that is an attraction to some.
There are others but these are common examples.
2007-01-06 11:32:52
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answer #3
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answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5
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Shower everyday. Brush your teeth 2 or 3 times a day. Shave. Use some cologne or after shave AND deoderant. Dress in some nice clothes. Brush your hair. Smile. If you have bad teeth smile without showing them. Always make eye contact when speaking to people. Show people that you have a personality.
2007-01-06 11:29:35
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answer #4
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answered by melvinbenjamin 3
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some people look attractive to different people. Just make sure you are well dressed and well groomed.
2007-01-06 12:24:16
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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keep clean, stay healthy and feel confident in yourself. All the other answers are saying the same, with more details.
2007-01-06 12:21:05
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answer #6
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answered by moonshadow 3
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You need to go to the "beauty" section for an answer to that. You should get several.
2007-01-06 11:29:04
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answer #7
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answered by INDRAG? 6
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Steps:
Lift weights three or four times a week. Walk or bicycle for 30 minutes the other days. No time do do that? Imagining workouts has been shown in at least one study to build muscle too. Think about lifting weights before bed for 15 minutes. However, the actual lifting builds muscle faster, and it's proven. If you can think about lifting weights for 15 minutes, then you can lift weights for 15 minutes, too. Other types of muscle building exercise pit muscle against muscle, such as putting the fist of one hand into the palm of the other and pushing them against each other for 10-15 seconds, and can be done practically anywhere at anytime.
Don't eat junk food. Ok, that might be impossible for many of us. So instead, don't eat junk food often. If your diet is made up of foods with high calories (whether from fats or simple sugars) and little other nutrition (vitamins, minerals, and fiber), it will show in your hair, nails, skin, teeth and gums--not to mention your gut. Consume healthy foods frequently, and other foods in wise moderation.
Make sure to develop good abdominal, arm, and chest muscles.
"Six-pack" abs should be your top priority. (Crunches and V-sit ups are good for building up abdominals.)
Drink water daily and try and avoid soda. Sugared sodas are the absolute worst for your body--the very definition of empty calories. While diet sodas are a better choice, club soda or seltzer water are better still if you MUST satisfy a carbonation addiction. (Club soda with nothing more added than a squeeze of lemon or lime is a delicious and crisp alternative to many sugared and diet sodas without the artifical sweeteners or the empty calories.)
Scent
Smelling good is very important! Shower each morning. Use either a strong smelling soap or body wash. It's best if it has some kind of moisturizer in it.
Wear cologne. Don't put too much on though. Just two sprays of a masculine smelling cologne will do. If you're using a non-spray cologne, place a few drops on a cotton ball and rub the scented cotton ball around the front of your neck, and just behind your ears.
Don't smoke. It may seem "cool" but it makes you smell bad and it gives you bad breath. It also affects your long-term health.
Hair and Nails
Have a chic-looking haircut. Don't go to a discount haircutter or other cheap place. Splurge and go somewhere slightly more expensive. It will pay off.
Most boys look good with hair gel in their hair, so gel up your hair in the morning. Gel adds body and definition to short hair.
Use a good shampoo and conditioner in the morning as well. You might be able to cut corners and buy an inexpensive shampoo, but you absolutely cannot cut corners on the conditioner. If you have dandruff, use a shampoo and conditioner designed for dandruff.
Don't bite your fingernails. (If you do, stop somehow.) Keep them cleaned (use a special nail brush for this) and trimmed to an appropriate length. A manicure once in a while never hurt a man, and women will notice those details that show that you've gone the extra length to look as good as possible.
Skin
Wash your face each morning with a gentle soap and a plastic wash pouf, rinse thoroughly, shave, then wipe your face with a cotton ball soaked in toner (either with witch hazel or hydrogen peroxide), then use a non-comedogenic moisturizer. Make sure to follow the same routine before going to bed, leaving out the moisturizer if you have oily skin.
If you have mild acne, try to control it by using an acne medication containing either salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide just after you've wiped your face with toner. Dandelion sap is also a good organic way to get rid of zits. A dab from a stem of it a few times a day will get rid of the pimples.
If you have acne that does not respond to the treatments suggested in the previous step, go to a dermatologist. Clear skin makes an enormous difference in a guy's appearance. Clear skin implies good health, and is prized as a universal symbol of attractiveness worldwide.
Clothing
There are too many guys that would look nice otherwise dressing in horrible clothes! Don't wear baggy clothing; wear clothing that fits.
Read magazines such as GQ, Esquire or Details. Those magazines will show you how to dress well as far as the latest fashions are concerned. Don't forget that the basics are timeless: solid color polo knit shirts, khakis in tan or olive, jeans in blue or black, plain white and black t-shirts (without logos, advertisements, or insignias), white button-down oxford shirts, blue blazers, socks in white and black, black dress lace up shoes, brown loafers, tan deck shoes, white sneakers. You'll always look presentable.
Shopping at corporate chains like American Eagle may make you look just like everyone else who shops at those places. Search for unusual, locally owned clothing stores for unique items to personalize your basic wardrobe.
Remember to wear clothing which fits well. Clothes a size too small do not make you look thinner or smaller. Dark clothes will help you look a little thinner.
Posture
It might seem irrelevant, but having good posture will make you look confident. Many women are attracted to confidence.
Stand up straight and put your shoulders back. Pretend someone just dumped a pitcher of ice cold water down your back. That's how straight your back should be.
Miscellaneous
When you are trying to impress girls, don't do stupid and dangerous things because most of the time, the girls aren't impressed.
If you want to attract a girl, you should concentrate on being unique. Girls are fed up with nice guys. A woman wants a man who can give them something they have never experienced. Any girl who tells you she just wants a nice guy is lying, so be unique, obtain a talent (parlor tricks? fake ESP? creative story-telling?) and just be as charming as you can.
Tips
All the above steps can be condensed as follows:
Smell good.
Have a good body and good posture.
Take care of your hair and nails.
Take care of your skin and teeth and don't have chapped lips.
Dress well, make sure to read fashion magazines for men, it will be helpful.
Warnings
Those people who want to look "better" than they are right now should know that they shouldn't try to be something that they're not. You should be yourself completely when you meet someone for the first time - don't be your representative.
Say you start to dress and act 'cool' as far as society is concerned, and you soon attract a member of the opposite sex that looks 'attractive.' If you were more comfortable the way you dressed and acted before, you have a problem, because you now have to maintain the act of this new personality. Eventually the discomfort and stress of living this alternate personality will be felt by your partner, who will leave you because you weren't the person she expected you to be.
Don't overdo it with hairstyling products. Use a light mixture of gel and a small amount of water to give you a nice hold without giving your hair a "plastic" look. Also hair 'fiber,' or wax provide a more controllable hold on hair, and many can be fixed if someone decides to be a jerk and mess up your hair. These are usually called 'pliable hold' products.
2007-01-06 11:30:51
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answer #8
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answered by sofia 3
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