ok theres a girl in my class -no names-WOULD YOU HATE HER IF U KNEW HER?1whenever im talking about my personal life she butts in from the row behind just to say "ooh rebel " yet her idea of rebel is wearing the hoodie of a band she doesnt know to impress people she doesnt like for the 10 mins between study and school 2she loves herself so much she takes out a pocket mirror and stares at her face from every angle in class and likes talks about herself CONSTANTLY.3her butt hangs out over her jeans and is like, shoved in every1s face cos she loves herself so much-she doesnt have a Coin-Slot, more Grand-Canyon, as in visible from space - you could drive a bus through it yet she insists on posing with her cheeks hanging out retchingly4 she could die of retardedness - she has sarcastic comebacks to evrything you say, even if you compliment her shell shove it in your face5shes started calling me emo,asking if im slitting my wrists soon(no remarks please!)can i COMPLETELY UTTERLY hate her??
2007-01-06 03:19:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop calling me gay , im a girl !!!shes just constantly in my face, i dont love her! ugh !! im tasting vomit........
2007-01-06 03:26:44 · update #1
Is she mean to you all the time? Probably means she's actually very self-consious and has extremely low self-esteem. A pitying comment like "Oh you poor thing, it must be tough always trying to get all of the attention" might be just what she needs to deflate her ego and bring her back to reality.
On the more mature side of behavior, I would consider asking her if you could talk to her privately during break and then say something like, "I'm concerned about the way you act. Maybe you should cover your crack with a sweatshirt or something. I heard some of the guys say some nasty comments about how disgusting your crack looks and how you must be a ho because of your behavior". That, more that anything else, is probably what she needs the most, to know that people aren't thinking she's hot, but that she's low and gross.
Sounds to me like she's super jealous of you and will do anything to take the attention off you to put it on herself, even if that means degrading herself to do it.
You could act like her yourself and say moo or make loud retching sounds everytime she walks by, but in my opinion, school is hard enough without the classmate politics. You'd only be lowering herself to her level and you're a better person than that. (Even tho it might make you feel superior for the moment, you'd probably feel bad for doing it eventually because those are things that people who don't like themselves do to make themselves feel bigger. Like she does...)
Either way, don't let her comments upset you. Only people who don't think much of themselves are really mean like that & she'll get her Karma one day, (probably by getting AIDS or a nasty STD from her slutty behavior). And once you're done with school, you'll probably never see her again, anyway! I wouldn't waste my time hating her, she's more deseving of your pity than anything else! Good Luck, I know school is tough, hang in there!
2007-01-06 03:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy Cuccia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With those reasons - definitely! She sounds incredibly annoying. But you have to remember everyone's unique, people do things for diffrent reasons. She seems like an attention seeker, they're the weird kind! She says things personally to you, so i gues you have a slight reason to feel something about her. If you didn't know her, saying you didnt like her would be uncalled for. But loathe is a strong word. Just stay away from her, and try not to let her get to you, thats prob what she wants - to make a lasting impression.
2007-01-06 04:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Winters 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you can! Does she have any friends? If she's as bad as you make out then I reckon you're not the only one who hates her! If more of you dislike her than like her you could go in for a kinda of peaceful protest against her. Maybe try and act like she isn't there - although that might take a lot of will power....... It seems that she wants to be the centre of attention and if you don't react to it she'll soon figure that she isn't. Good Luck!
2007-01-06 03:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by dot254 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ppl like that can be so annoying. what i learned while in school is to ignore them, but sometimes you just can't. i had a girl that treated me in a simular way in school. ther was no provocation on my part...i was the shy, quiet kid. i dealt with her abusive remarks for 3 years before something clicked in me one day. we were on the bus and i heard her talking smack again..and i turned around in my seat, looked at her, got up, walked the the back of the bus, got in her face, and asked her if she had a problem. (never had a prob with her aftr that...i think it shocked her that i was prepared to stand up for myself)
granted...thats probably not the best way to deal with anything. as i said..something just snapped in me one day.
now i can say, i am 22 years old, and i dont take sh** from anyone.
u can hate her if you like..but dont take her crap. she's no better than you.
2007-01-06 05:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem almost obsessed with this chick. Hatred like that isn't healthy for you. Why not just ignore her and live your life?
You give her power by getting upset. She probably loves the fact that she is able to piss you off like that.
2007-01-06 03:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you bother to hate insecure feeble-minded gimps like this you are in danger of becoming them. And that's a bad thing. Be proud of who you are and let this insignificance wash over you. That will p*** her off more than you can imagine
2007-01-06 03:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by nealo d 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes but maybe youre trying to deny the fact that you actually love her, I take it you are a teenager you will get over this phase in a couple of years!
2007-01-06 03:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, absolutely. I'd hate her too - but then again, I hate everybody, so better not use me as a reference...
Now honestly, I fully understand that you hate her, but try to have some sympathy for her, too - I mean, when you're living such a pathetic, erm, "life" that your only happiness is staring at yourself and slagging off others, then that's rather pitiable, innit?
2007-01-06 03:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Grand Canyon! lol....love the imagination!
2007-01-06 09:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by oxEmmaxo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh My God! YES!!!
She is obviously a b*tch! Why the hell is she listening to your private conversations???
and what is with the vanity? what self respecting person stares at them selfs in the mirror AND lets their ar*e hang out?
i hate people who have rubbish comebacks! why say them if they are sh*t? how stupid can She be?
She is very retarded, indeed! It is VERY ok to hate her guts!
YOU GO GIRL!!!!
ps. you sound like someone i know, i mean really sound like them! in fact it's creepy!
2007-01-07 02:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by roooof 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋