I'm 40 and have had nothing but bad relationships and just basically gave up on women. But, I am starting to worry a bit about this. I may have a chance in a week or so but I'm not even sure I want to get into a relationship....
2007-01-06 03:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
what is normal
2007-01-06 03:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By "may have a chance in a week or so" do you mean you may have a chance at SEX in a week or so?
If so then you are looking for the wrong thing... sex is not how you "get into" a relationship..it may become PART of one...
stop worrying..try to just enjoy meeting people and learn to like yourself..
I was a single mom for 12 years... didn't really date..to busy being super-mom...NO SEX.. and yet I am normal...lol.. I am also remarried now (for 3 years) and sex..well..it has returned to my life. ;-)
2007-01-06 03:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes57_99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people it is normal, for others, not. For you, it is obviously normal!
Enter the new relationship with caution, but also with an open mind--a series of bad relationships doesn't mean the next one is going to be bad too!
And don't worry about "getting back in the saddle", it'll all come back. ;)
Good luck!
2007-01-06 03:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Erika S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since your not sure...you may as well go for it. You don't say what was bad about your past relationships, but whatever the signals may be (ie. your attracted to outgoing party girls, but don't want to spend all your time at the bars) , try to break the pattern. This one could be the one. I think you're too young to give up.
2007-01-06 03:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has sex got to do with long term relationship ..don't you believe in sex for fun ..or one night stands ..or even
pay for sex i don't recommend it but ..come on dude 4 years is a long time without it ,you sure you know how it's done now days ..good luck in a week or so
2007-01-06 03:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't have the desire, why force yourself? If you don't want a relationship, nothing says you have to have one, and it's not fair to the woman involved to get into one because you somehow feel you have to.
Priests (well, most of them anyway!) remain celibate for decades and still live long, healthy, productive lives. If your body does not crave sex, there is absolutely no reason you have to have it.
2007-01-06 03:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself(no pun intended). There is someone out there for you. Be a good guy and treat woman the way you want to be treated and you will find a great girl. You wil get the love of a good woman.
2007-01-06 05:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a male and haven't had sex in 4 months....you could either be lying or didn't find something better to ask....OR you must be really FAT and unattractive lol........
2007-01-06 03:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Father O'Brian, is that you??? shame and begorrah on yu!
2007-01-06 12:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a chance..if you dont like her, then you dont have to see her anymore.
2007-01-06 03:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by hcogirl14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs. wow i say go for it.
2007-01-06 03:36:30 · answer #11 · answered by texas nanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋