I'm Really fed up. I duno know but I noticed some ppl lie 2 me whether kidding or seriously, should I link it 2 my kindness? Bcuz ppl always tell me that I'm xtremely kind, (All ppl r good unless they prove me wrong and if they proved me wrong I must give em other chance bcuz he may acted bad bcuz of his situation that forced him to do the wrong act), That was my standard thinking of people, and I really don't like to even act against any of my friend's insults when we're fighting bcuz I know that eventually we're gonna fix it n i don't want to leave anything that may hurt any of my friends n would make him feel bad bcuz i like em n i know that i may b upset and i need 2 control myself instead of insulting for the sake of our friendship cuz he may not aware of what he's doing.
I really feel hurt when I get insulted but what shall i do.
So lately i noticed being lied to from several ppl, n my father said that I'm being dumb and ppl will use me n treat me like some Dummy, is that True?!
2007-01-06 03:07:15 · 4 answers · asked by Kwassa Kwassa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's only true if you aren't good at judging where to draw the line. What you describe is very noble, but there comes a point where you need to walk away from someone who won't stop being a jerk, or using you. If you aren't good at this, then yeah people will treat you poorly. There's nothing wrong with having boundaries, they are important for your well-being.
2007-01-06 03:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to be taken advantage of, its not right. And you're a really nice/giving person that needs to be treated right. Tell the person how you really feel and tell them what you want done. How you don't want the friendship to be over with, you can still fix it.
You're not dumb, so don't think that.
2007-01-06 11:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to be cautious. You aren't dumb to be compassionate. But with time you will learn to pay attention to your gut because not all people are good. Try to hear, evaluate and confront if you feel you are being lied to.
2007-01-06 11:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by mamadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're setting yourself up to be taken advantage of. Stop it.
2007-01-06 11:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋