2007-01-06 02:03:01 · 33 answers · asked by realist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's not a gender issue. millions of people are heartless.
2007-01-06 02:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
not all females are heartless. It is not a gender thing because both men and women can be totally without empathy or sincereity. Women who are self-centered are just like males who behave similarly. The question you might want to ask is why is SHE heartless? Personally i think heartlessness is a little bit genetic, but MOSTLY...They are raised to be egocentric and totally self-absorbed! It is a shame isn't it?! Sorry for you loss we have all been there, but don't give up there are good people out there.
2007-01-06 02:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For every action, there is a reaction. what caused this female to be heartless? Is it possible that this emotion is being used as a defense mechanism? There could be alot of components to this behavior, I think you should rephrase your question by looking deeper into the psyche of the person, really look at what is causing the behavior, you will get a better answer with a more specific question.
2007-01-06 02:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by LDS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you got hurt. Not all woman are heartless. Try looking in a different place for a date. Sometimes are picking is not the best choice. Try going for someone that is out of your type. You may be surprised to find someone waiting there for you. I would also suggest time to heal before you go jumping into the frying pan again. Good luck and take your time. It will come when you aren't looking.
2007-01-06 02:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They think with their hearts and men think with their heads...quite a difference there buddy. Way to understand a woman, avoid unnecessary arguments they Will always win. Don't lie to them these people are weird they have antennas that smell a lie a mile away, be honest with what you tel them, if you love them say so genuinely they are intelligent beings, sometimes they play along with you because they want you company and when they have it...they move on and you think they are heartless? No dude, they are just too smart!
2007-01-06 02:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have been hurt. I assure you they are not. A hurt female will also say why are men so heartless?
If someone is hurting you, communicate that you feel hurt, if the offending party think that is funny lose them and move on.
Try not to make so generalised a judgement.
2007-01-06 02:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jewel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think mother nature made women to be very giving and loving, but when a women is neglected or used yes she can become heartless, it's called feeling hurt or mistrusting.
2007-01-06 02:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a woman has had as much as she can take and has tried everything, acting in a way that can be conceived as heartless is the only way to get her point across.
2007-01-06 02:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by Miranda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some are conditioned by their environment at home and school up to about 13 years old to expect to be the centre of attention. They expect all the privilages granted by "gallant" or "chivalrous" boys and men AND also have "equality" at work and play. Not all women are like this but if you've encountered one then you have my sympathy. They can be much crueller than any man.
2007-01-06 02:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They aren't by a long shot. Some may be colder hearted because of hurts they have been thru. I think its wrong to stereotype all women into any category. Much more men show lack of concern for others ceelings than women do.
2007-01-06 02:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by dana j 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
every heartlessness always has reason. Not only females but also males is heartless, but not all.
2007-01-06 02:12:34 · answer #11 · answered by blue sky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋