I am 12 years old and i really love this boy and he is the same age as me i don't know if i should still go out with him behind my mom's back or break up with him and tell him why and be upset with myself for a while! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-06 01:44:59 · 7 answers · asked by it goes to heaven forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I curious, where do 12 years old go on a date?
2007-01-06 01:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed that you started this "dating" thing behind your mother's back. End your dating thing TODAY... just explain that your mother does not allow you to date. And maybe you can still recover your trustworthiness if you act responsibly from now on.
1. Study harder than ever
2. Spend an hour a day in the library
3. Spend an hour a day at the gym
4. Honor your parents and your teachers
5. Get involved in a worthy school function
6. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
7. Help someone every day
8.Go to Church
9.Invite your friends to Church
10.Take group dance lessons
Good Luck
2007-01-06 01:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like son many other comments, you are 12! Do you really know the difference between love and infatuation? There is a serious difference that you should know. If your mother has told you that you can't have a boyfriend then you should respect that and only have friends. You need to slow things down before they go too far and you can't go back. I'm sure your smart, think logically.
2007-01-06 01:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go behind your mom's back, u are 12, don't try to grow up too fast, and do grownup things, as u will miss alot. mom always finds out, so why risk punishment, and loosing the trust of your mom over a boy who u probably won't even remember when u do grow up. we put to much importance on friends, and people when we are young, we do things we shouldn't just because of peer pressure, and everybody else is doing it, but in reality we need to be the age we really are, cause we aren't as mature as we think we are.
2007-01-06 01:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right, but remember that your mom has loved you unconditionally for 12 years....and she still does...
2007-01-06 01:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dipti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young to be dating at all. don't go out with him behind your mum's back or she'll lose her trust in you. if she does, it'll be difficult to earn her trust and worse of all she'll start laying down strict restrictions for you. is that what you want? wait till you're older and know what exactly what commitment and relationship is about.
2007-01-06 01:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mom is really mean than its up to you... if shes somewhat nice probably stay and if shes really nice stay
2007-01-06 01:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋