What shud i do?

Question

i'm a complete tomboy and my frnds think its kiddish, and mind you i don't act kiddish. But its just that i sometimes feel that i don't fit in (in my group) coz they have different interests and i have different interests......

Answer 1

Remember,whatever you are and however you are; but you are.
so always be youself.
if you feel that you don't fit in your group then do not get depressed.
just the be the way you are and try to love urself and your own way.
always try to be unique do not waste your time in thinking 'why am I like this?'
each and every person has different kind of interests so you do.
afterall you cannot change you OWN interests.

Answer 2

You are you, love and be confident in you first. In real life people don't all dress the same, or think the same thing is cute, or whatever. We are individuals-that is what makes life great. You can wear whatever you want, and who cares if the person next to you is in a prom dress- you are just as comfortable being you. And that doesn't mean you can't be friends with prom dress girl, in fact you would probably be better friend because you would neither one have to worry about sharing clothes, or boyfriends, or stupid stuff that breaks friends up these days, because you have different tastes.

Answer 3

Only a true friend will like you for who you already are and will not try and change you unless maybe you are doing drugs or something then friends should have a concern if they care about you. Don't let them disrespect the way you want to live or dress or act because that is your decision in life not there's and if they don't like it then tell them to stick it if yah know what I mean. Lol. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Either you and your friends need to understand that you can have different interests than them and still be friends or if that doesn't work then maybe they are not true friends. You can also work on being a little more girly than you are now but if that does not feel like you than just talk to your friends. Maybe they will understand. Hope this advice helps!!!

Answer 5

hi,look at people of ur age how they behave how they thing im not teling like one person is doing it so u do it 2 but look at majority of them if u enjoy ur style and people dont mind it dosent matter but try to have a formal attitude when u r with people whome u dont know well or something like that if ur groupaccepts u the way u r and trust u then u r in the right place it is not fully ur behaviour but ur personality that reflects.
cheers

Answer 6

i had this problem too, now i have 2 friends who are girls who im really close with and the rest of my friends are guys, and im still well respected, alot of people look up to me, you'll find some nice guys that have the same intrests as you, guy friends are awesome, and when you need girl time or advice you have 1 or 2 girlfriends to talk to, it works for me good luck!

Answer 7

I have this little poem on my wall, it has helped me and my son , hope it will help you also..
Its not enough to have a dream unless I'm willing to pursue it.. Its not enough to know whats right unless I'm strong enough to do it.. It's not enough to join the crowd, to be acknowledged and accepted, I must be true to my ideals even if I'm excluded and rejected.. It's not enough to learn the truth unless I also learn to live it.. It's not enough to reach for love , unless I care enough to give it.
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Don't let someone else decide who and what you are ... they are not true friends. A true friend knows all your faults and likes you anyway...just as you are.. Stay real!

Answer 8

U should never ever change who u r if they were good friends they would accept u the way U r so just be urself and if u needed new friends that accept who u r find them .

Answer 9

Maybe find some with similar interests as yourself. You don't have to drop the friends you have to have other friends too. Like they say, You can never have to many friends. ;o)

Answer 10

find friends with interest similar to yours