2007-01-06 01:09:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
This is just a survey. Any feedback by anyone is welcome. Please do not be angry.
2007-01-06 01:32:52 · update #1
Depends on your position with this woman.
If you are starting a relationship then no, it would not be rude to ask. You are absolutely allowed to find out information about someones sexual past before having sex with them. It's a smart and safe thing to do.
A lot of you arn't thinking about this question very well. Maybe that's why so many people end up with sexually transmitted diseases. You don't get into bed with someone whos sexual history you don't know. Even if you're using protection, it's just asking for trouble.
If you just met this girl than it could be rude.
Though, back in the day I asked several girls if they were virgins and then we started a discussion on sex. They didn't take offense to it at all. Actually, they were rather open about it, but I had known these girls for awhile mind you.
I guess it just depends how you pose the question then. If you pose it out of no where like a sleeze bag then yes it'll probably be offensive. If you are discussing those sort of things and it's appropriate to bring it up it won't be rude.
2007-01-06 04:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
The more your are around a person the more you pretty much know what they are.
If your planning a relationship with her time will tell if she is a virgin or not.
If you are going to marry her then yes it is your business. But, When you get to the point of marriage what she is will probably all ready have come out.
2007-01-06 09:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by smially 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO- I was proud to call myself a virgin when men asked me a long time ago. People act as if being a virgin woman was a horrible thing. Its called I had respect for myself and my body- and to show a man her body is concidered like sharing a deep secret. Despite most majority of people lost their virginity early I am proud to say that I waited until I found the love of my life (my husband) to share that intimacy with.
2007-01-06 23:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would think so, after all it's her own business, a very personal matter. If a man wants to develop a relationship with a woman he likes very much, I guess virginity should not be a factor. Can you imagine her asking you if you are?
2007-01-06 09:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by gaban24 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Like in the first five minuets of meeting. Yes, that is very rude. In a relationship, no.
2007-01-06 21:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by fifimsp1 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO, if you asked a virgin. Most woman will get angry since they're not virgin anymore and they feel ashamed of it, whether they realize it or not. Most people(man and woman) do sex just because others do it and therefore, they lose their virginity at surprisingly young age. I am a pretty young virgin and i'm proud of it. But please don't ask a woman whether she is still virgin unless you're virgin too and you're planning to marry her. The rest of you can start yelling, i don't care. I've speak my mind. Sayonara.
2007-01-06 10:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by alexis christian 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Unless you are going to marry her, or you are a gynocologist, and want to help her out.
Many girls these days dont seem to be virgins as some one or the other would have raped them in childhood or they would have given in, to a passionate man at one or the other point. (only once in life).
So, it is difficult to judge a person's character on that basis.
Better avoid a question like that.
2007-01-06 09:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maliha S 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. But in this country, figure the odds. If she's over 25 the odds are very slim she is...really no need to ask. Same thing for men.
2007-01-06 11:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do not think it is rude if you want to wait with sex till marriage and expect your partner to do the same in return.
2007-01-06 09:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
in general yes.
I can understand if while dating a girl she seems really unsure and inexperienced and you want to see if you are going to be her first, but it seems sexist to just ask 'are you still a virgin?'
2007-01-06 22:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋