I mean you can do it yourself cause your attracted to a man and somewhat think like a woman, but when you actually see it instead of doing it does it look weird to you. I'm straight and Just wondering, no offense but it just looks weird to me.
2007-01-06 00:59:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes it can dude. Im gay and with a guy for the last 8yrs and it still makes me feel uncomfortable. It ok if they just peck a bit but when the tongue wars begin, i dont really like seeing it.
Want to know why it makes us feel uncomfortable? Its because of growing up around narrow-minded people who teach you that gay is odd and a bad thing. Totally redicilious way of thinking.
I answered ure question with 100% honesty dude. I hope you got ure answer.
2007-01-06 01:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to spend a bit more time educating yourself about homosexuality. Being attracted to your own gender if you are male has nothing to do with "somewhat thinking like a woman". If you were thinking like a homosexual woman, you would not be attracted to a man. If you are inferring that homosexual men are that way because they think like women, you don't know a thing about women. Men are men, gay or straight and they never think like women.
Two men showing affection or simply just lust for each other is both poignant and very erotic, what may look weird to you is the act. If we had the freedom to express ourselves in public like heterosexuals do, it wouldn't look weird.
However spit swapping by any sexual orientation, homosexual or heterosexual in a public venue is simply bad manners. Ick.
2007-01-06 09:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First...Not all gay men think like women! You need to quit stereotyping people! I don't think that all straight men masturbate to photos of other people's toes so you need to step it up and give them a little respect too!
Second...LOVE IS LOVE! Nothing about it is "weird", disgusting or gross! When you can see two people (gay or straight) in love, you have an opportunity to see the world in a new light. Don't take that moment for granted and never think that it is "weird". I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-01-06 09:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tennessee James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anybody going at it hot and heavy in public is rude. Like the Christina Aguilera video, the point was good, but seeing anybody make out like that is a little weird to me. It doesn't look weird because they're gay, it looks weird because not many people do that (or should do that) in public, gay or straight.
2007-01-06 10:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, seeing 2 people of any orientation making out in public seems weird to me. It doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. A quick kiss as a display of greeting or affection is fine but mashing faces and groping each other is not a behavior I think should be displayed in public. Maybe I'm just a gay prude.
2007-01-06 09:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Murazor 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a bi and my partner lesbian, but we actually enjoy watching gay male porn occasionally. Why? We don't know, maybe because to us it looks more natural than watching lesbian sex, which is so damn fake it's disgusting. But in public, I'm not fond of watching any one get it on, hetero, homo or otherwise. There are just somethings that should be done in the privacy of one's own home. This is our upbringing, if we were raised where there was no privacy, then these things would not seem disgusting to us. Historically speaking, Indian tribes, Eskimos were all in the same tipi/igloo whole family groups together--you were expected to ignore/turn aside when any lovemaking was going on. So I guess it all depends.
2007-01-06 11:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gay and it can be weird.......I think there is a proper place and time for that....Id be sorta grossed out if I saw a straight couple or a gay couple say making out in a starbucks.....It seems more natural say to see a couple of guys making out in a gay bar after a few beers or in somesort of gay atmosphere...gay resort or gay pride...
I guess it also weirds me out because a gay couple making out in
public...could be the target of gay bashing and get hurt...while of course a straight couple might just get some looks or hoots and hollars.......
do you feel weird when you see a guy and girl making out in public?? You seem to be nice and open...just curious....stay on that course for a good rewarding life....
2007-01-06 09:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by rustoleum1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no way does being a gay man mean you think like a woman.
There is nothing weird about two people making out.
2007-01-06 09:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, we think it's hot, actually. Now when we see a man and a woman making out that really makes us want to vomit our guts out! Yuck! I get so sick of seeing breeders rubbing their lifestyle in our faces. LOL
2007-01-06 09:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a lesbian and seeing two guys kiss is disgusting to me. it just seems wrong. i know, i know, i'm gay too so whats the deal? well, i just don't like 2 men being intimate. men are supposed to be masculine. when theyre kissing each other, they look sissy or feminine. but women are naturally soft and affectionate so it doesn't bother me when 2 women kiss.
2007-01-06 10:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋