hi everybody! here is my little problem: I go to dance classes twice a week and I really used to enjoy myself until...one disgusting and mean girl showed up! she is a friend of my friend -and they seem to get along well! but I really cannot stand her-she gets at people all the time,she is criticizing them and she can't stop! She is not even pretty or something and I think she is jealous and I feel sorry for her but I'm not gonna let her comment me or talk behind my back!
ok, I'm waiting for your advice!!!
and just to know something about me-I am really light-hearted ,I have fun and do whatever I want and show people how I feel about them and maybe that's why that girl dislikes me but I don't care-she is a snake and everybody hates her! only my friend likes her but I have no idea why!
2007-01-06 00:56:38 · 7 answers · asked by Maria N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have such a classmate at school and i have to see/interact with her everyday. real annoying i understand. try to keep your contact with her at the minimal to avoid bad blood.
if she does talk about you behind your back, let it be-- your real friends would know you aren't what she's talking about, and that she's only trying to spoil your reputation. that will only gain her more dislikes from your friends. as for those who don't know you well, once they do, they'll realise what she said was untrue and eventually she'll backfire on herself. be yourself! all the best to you.. hope this helps :)
2007-01-06 01:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your "friend" that you don't like it when she tells you everything that is on her mind. Let her know that she needs to look at the mirror and fix her problems before telling everyone else that they are wrong. She will respect that you have your own opinions and say " how dare you talk to me like that?" But that's when you say " That's the exact same way I feel when you talk to me so try to stop and I won't "talk to you like that" anymore. It's about respecting someone else as a person and not making them feel they didn't do something the "way it should be".
RESPECT
2007-01-06 09:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend sees something in her no-one else does, i couldn't get along with someone like that, everyone is different thow. Ask your friend what she sees in her, it also sounds like you friends friend maybe trying to fit in someway and dosen't know how. Ask the girl why she criticizes people, any way people have different attitudes, likes and dislikes, i really wouldn't let it bother me.
2007-01-06 09:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the best thing to do is to ask her out. it might sound weird in a way but i might work in two ways. 1.) you ask her out she likes you she would be so much into you she wouldn't critized you or other dancers in your dance class. 2.) if it is just you she is saying things mean to you ask her out!!!!! BUT, if she doesn't like you she won't talk to you. or you can quit dance class or you can tell your dance instructor that you have problems with a girls and ask that she can keep her mouth shut> Ihope this has help
2007-01-06 09:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cody P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it. Ask her why she does this, and would she like it if other people did the same thing to her.
2007-01-06 09:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by darien_bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no what complain 'bout her, be nice or be open minded and patient
2007-01-06 08:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by -arika- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what she's doing maybe she dosent realize it!! DDUHH
2007-01-06 08:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋